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A**holes & Rabble Rousers: Comments for Jon Watts

Saturday, May 11th, 2013

Some thoughts on Quaker musician Jon Watts and his interview in the Fifth Month issue of Friends Journal . . . .

John Watts & FJ quotes marked as JW; Chuck Fager’s comments marked CF . . . .

JW: I went through Baltimore Yearly Meeting’s camping program and Young Friends program, and I also regularly attended the Friends General Conference summer gatherings. The attitude that I picked up in these programs taught me to mostly reject popular Christian theology (Jesus as Savior; the afterlife; anything resembling mainstream Christianity, really).

Jon Watts

CF: I get that, and the general indictment is completely correct. But at least as far as the camps are concerned, that’s not all there is to it. I’m in the second generation of watching-shepherding my progeny go through the BYM camping program, and my conclusion is that it has more Quake-ish impact than one might think. It seems to tie many who have Quaker backgrounds to the Society in ways that last, tho they may also take a lot of time to sort out. Same goes for Friends Music Camp, which has a similar “no-Christianity-please-we’re-Friends” ethos, yet turns out fiercely loyal alumni.

All four of my kids went thru such camps, and now two grandkids. It’s left lasting marks on all of them; and two of my four kids have stayed with the RSOF explicitly; the other two have let me do my best to Quakerize their kids. I call that a good investment in Quaker formation, tho incomplete.

JW: After graduating from the Quaker Leadership Scholars Program at Guilford College, I had more of an understanding of the fundamental role of Christianity in shaping Quaker practice and so less of a knee-jerk rejection of anything Christian. I came to feel a bit under-tooled or misled by the Quaker institutions that had brought me up. I still share and respect a certain level of skepticism but generally feel that by rejecting Christianity altogether, we are throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

When I asked God what to do with the angst and rebelliousness I was feeling against the Liberal Quakerism that had raised me, I was given the song “Friend Speaks My Mind.” It is an anthem for Liberal FGC Quakerism—a love song, really.

CF: Again, without minimizing the “under-tooling” you were subjected to, I feel a need to point out that there is a “minority stream” in recent Quaker thought that has been grappling with this “baby-bathwater” thing for a good while. I’m an example of it, with a paper-trail going back more than 30 years. There are others. It’s been a disappointment for me that your generation, so far as I can discover, has not seriously engaged with this substantial body of work. I wouldn’t mind at all to see it critically examined, pointing up where it may fall short.

The lack of engagement here is not for me a sign of “rebelliousness and angst,” tho. Quite the contrary. It shows you all are in this respect almost fully socialized into and accommodated to this “under-tooling” Quaker culture. That’s because one of its most salient features is a rock-hard anti-intellectualism about religion, especially its own. That’s strange, given the level of multi-degreed folks among us. But it’s true. And the Guilford QLSP, for all its many virtues, doesn’t seem to make much of a dent in this attitude/culture.

The few YAFS who are making the trek to the Dandelion doctoral program in the UK may become the exceptions, but those who prove the rule. Not that everyone needs to become a major scholar of Quakerism. But when so many ignore the stacks of relevant writing and thinking on the shelves (and the net), and then complain that no one is helping them sort out their (and our) plight — well, frankly that looks more like slackerism to me than productive religious seeking and witness. Just sayin’.

JW: FRIENDS JOURNAL: How did that conversation [About your “Dance party” video] go? Were there any techniques you found to transform a conversation?

JON: I think this is a great question for modern Friends: how are we dialoguing on the Internet about our faith? When you read the comments on YouTube, you’ll often find that they dissolve into bitter bickering. Quakers aren’t really the exception online.

CF: You’re right, but my experience with Facebook, the other major platform, is more positive. Yes there are flame ups, clashing stereotypes, wandering threads, some messes and too many cute cat photos (of which I’ve uploaded my share). But I’ve also had many good conversations there across lines of both theology and generation with thoughtful Friends, not only in the US but as far away as Australia. And some have involved actual information exchange, not just “I FEEL this” or “I FEEL that.”

I don’t know where all this talk is going. It’s not a “program” started by some well-meaning “ministry” (thank god). But it feels good and promising. So I resonate to your comment that

JW: I’m trying to be patient with it, because I think that we should be dialoguing between branches. We have something to learn from one another.

CF: You add, correctly, that

JW: Quakerism has always been a microcosm of the wider culture, which is currently bitterly divided between religious folks and secular humanists. So imagine how powerful Quakerism could be for modeling a loving conversation between those who deeply believe in Christianity and those who have been deeply hurt by it or feel dismissive of it! This is God’s invitation to us: to be witnesses to abundant love by letting it flow in the most difficult circumstances— when our house is divided.

CF: Yet I think this diagnosis, while good as far as it goes, is significantly incomplete. Our culture is also divided in another way that I think crucial: between those who remember, and those who are accepting of the amnesia that our media culture invisibly enforces. (An example: this morning’s paper has a piece by a columnist who told some buddies about plans to go to Normandy in France for a commemoration of the US invasion there during World War Two. His buddies didn’t know what he was talking about. Many other examples could be cited.) This is evident every day among my Quaker contacts.

This pervasive amnesia is a key to our present plight: on one side, it leaves us at the mercy of the false, oppressive narratives of the Establishment and its media. On the other, it deprives us of access to the alternative stories of our tradition, which can challenge and undermine the Official Story. That happens, though, above all via the retrieval and claiming of memory, in our case especially that of our Quaker subculture.

This amnesia runs the spectrum from left to right, Christian and secular, but I’m most concerned with its impact on the RSOF in its various manifestations.

The struggle against this amnesia, and for our Quaker memory, proceeds on many fronts. And it takes WORK. I’m grateful for your efforts in this direction (Solomon Eccles, I’m looking at you!), and hope they continue.

But good grief, here’s the silliest question in the interview:

JW: FRIENDS JOURNAL: Should we be avoiding the Internet?

CF: WTF?? They might as well say, “the air is polluted, so should Friends stop breathing?” Your response that Friends need to get into it as “content producers” (an ugly phrase that; but we’re stuck with it, I expect) is right on, with the precedent of early Friends exploiting (I use that term without shame here) the new medium of printing backing you up.

I’m much more ambivalent about your additional comment that,

JW: Those of us with ministries on the Internet aren’t acknowledged by our meetings. We’re left to our own devices as individuals: no support, no accountability.
This is dire indeed . . . .

CF: I’m not so sure it’s dire. Maybe we need to have a conversation about this.

When I look at RSOF history, I see the era of the most “support and accountability” (late 1600s to about 1865) as being an era largely characterized by stifling, smothering, enforced conformity. (I’m not alone in this. Geoffrey Kaiser, in the latest version of his huge wall chart history, speaks frankly of the “Quaker police state”. Rufus Jones said much the same thing, more elliptically.) Yes, there were some good things — antislavery, women ministers; but the list is a lot shorter than one might think. and culturally, I don’t hesitate to say it was mostly a desert.

Finally there was a rebellion (several, actually), and things Quaker got interesting again. But the uprisings also ushered in the era of “ministry-on-your-own,” which we’re still in. That has its drawbacks too (especially financial); but that’s my take on the whole era of what some call “Quietism,” and I’m sticking to it. So personally I’m very uneasy about efforts to reconstruct these old arrangements, even piecemeal.

JW: FRIENDS JOURNAL: But what does [Solomon] Eccles’s story have to say to us today?
Reply: My whole generation right now is asking: “Why Quakerism? What does Quakerism have to offer me?” I think it’s the wrong question. You’re going to the get the most out of something that recognizes your gifts as vital. That’s when you’re going to feel the most full of Spirit.

CF: My experience is somewhat different. In my Bible study, I note that many of the most important spirit-filled and eloquent voices there (prophets especially) were not “recognized and nurtured” by their communities in any formal ways. Quite the opposite. They said what they had to say, often doing so with great art, because the Spirit left them no option, and in the face of stiff opposition from their key audiences, especially those in authority. That’s not just dusty history. Much of my life experience and observation reinforce these models, I regret to report.

But then again, it’s true that they were “held accountable.” Yeah, sure: jail, attempted murder and exile for Jeremiah; Isaiah supposedly killed; Amos banished. And don’t get me started on that guy from Galilee, whose complaint in Matthew 23:29-39 about the prophets’ experience with “accountability” was soon enough followed by a repeat of it.

Jeremiah - saved from drowning in mud
Support & accountability, biblical style: Jeremiah the prophet, rescued from being drowned in mud for his messages

And I just had a flash: I wonder if what your lot isn’t yearning for is a warm-fuzzy Camp Catoctin setting for what is basically a sacrificial, cross-carrying vocation. There may be days where you’ll get that good feeling; but overall, they don’t compute. They’re karmically mismatched, one might say. Too much campfire, not enough Bible and Christianity.

This affects my response to your rousing conclusion:

JW: So I say: “Prophets! Activists! Visionaries! Come back! Warriors and assholes and rabble-rousers! Abrasive, contrarian punks! Come back! Quakerism needs you!” 

CF: You’re quite right; bring them on. But those “assholes and rabble-rousers” who come back and expect to be met with flowers (or joints) and offers of gigs with regular paychecks to do these things — well, they’re in for a serious round of disappointments. Even in better times, there were mighty few such slots that I ever heard of. Those who carved out a viable niche did the carving pretty much by themselves. BTDT.

JW: Many people in my generation feel that we’ve inherited a Quakerism that we’re not satisfied with. We have all this analysis about what’s wrong with it. I think it’s good for us to analyze and even sometimes to complain about it, but at some point we need to take ownership and move Quakerism into territory that feels more vital for us. . . .

CF: A-fucking-men. Here’s what I’ve decided is one of the key markers for adulthood, especially among Friends: when one quits blaming us geezers for things not being the way you want them.

I mean, hey — so I got a little busy trying to cope with four major wars and three recessions plus one actual depression in my adult lifetime, not to mention my own stumbling effort to grow up, while raising a family, trying to pay the bills, and learn how to be a writer. Okay, so maybe in the process there were a few things that got shorted — like remaking Quakerism to you-all’s specifications, which BTW you didn’t give us til a few years ago. You want ownership? Come and get it. Seems like thee and me are in agreement on this; hope the idea spreads.

JW: There are many Quakers who have vital things to say about Quakerism and who risk confronting the empire that surrounds and permeates us. I want everyone to have access to these incredible resources, and I’m tired of waiting for someone else to do it.

CF: Now you’re talking (singing). What about a punk/hip-hop Quaker video opera that features Jim Corbett starting the Sanctuary movement in the 80s; Elizabeth Watson insisting on being a minister when everyone told her women couldn’t do that; Bill Kreidler creating a ministry from addiction and AIDS and rediscovering the saints, which was so rich that his life couldn’t hold it all; and Tom Fox . . . .

Maybe your new project is a kind of equivalent to that. Good luck with it.

Bogus Baloney On Quaker “Growth” From FWCC and Friends Journal

Friday, May 3rd, 2013

In its May issue, Friends Journal published a sloppy, unprofessional article on Quaker membership trends that does a major disservice to its readers and Friends generally. (Not online when this was posted.)

Here are key quotes from the article, which is an interview with FWCC US staff:


In North America, FWCC has reported a decrease of about 10,000 over the past five years. . . . Why do you think the Society of Friends is growing in other parts of the world but not in the United States? And are there growing segments of Friends in the United States?

[FWCC]: The growth is the result of an active effort of evangelical Friends to share the good news.


My comment: The above statement contains damaging inaccuracies.

Where US Quakerism is losing numbers most rapidly is precisely among the pastoral/evangelical branches which are dedicated to “sharing” their “good news.” In fact, the record shows convincingly that if US Friends want to “grow,” they should sedulously avoid “evangelism,” because the results over decades demonstrate it to be a counterproductive waste of time and money.

One brief example will illustrate this point: Baltimore and North Carolina (FUM) Yearly Meetings are “next door neighbors” on the mid-Atlantic coast. Baltimore is liberal, unprogrammed, and has been growing steadily for many years. In sharp contrast, North Carolina (NCYM), which is pastoral and evangelical, has been declining rapidly for years. (Sources are below.)

Here’s a thumbnail: Between 1996 and 2006, NCYM shrank from 11562 members to 7019, a decline of 39%. It also lost 10 churches.

Meanwhile, between 1991 and 2011 Baltimore YM grew from 4047 to 4708 members, an increase of 16%, and started ten new meetings.

This comparison is not exact, but the trends are clear: North Carolina is in deep, deep trouble, and it’s not alone in this plight. (You can read a more recent summary of its dire state in the YM’s own words here. ) Baltimore, while hardly perfect, is neither endangered nor even shrinking. Such reports of its approaching demise are not merely exaggerated; they are false. Nor is it alone.

Yet BYM is not involved in “evangelism”; and its “outreach” is meager. Still it grows. Why? How? Those are good questions, which deserve more attention than can be given them here.

It’s also worth noting here that the Quaker bodies which are losing ground the fastest in the US include those which have been most resistant to affirming LGBT Friends, and most supportive of the political crusades of the Religious Right, including support for the recent wars. So why liberal bodies whose “good news” is welcoming to gays, challenging to the war machine, and seeks constructive alternatives to rightwing culture war campaigns should be imitating these groups escapes me, especially when such efforts don’t even work on their own terms.

So it is sad to see the FJ article’s purported good news about “growing segments of Friends in the United States” completely bypassing the documented, encouraging facts about YMs like Baltimore that have steadily expanded. Instead it focuses on the reported appearance of some scattered Hispanic oriented evangelical congregations in the US (about which, however, it has no data whatever), and “the continued growth of small Christian-Quaker worship groups. Some of them have been more visible online and others are more locally focused.”

They have also been special interests of both the FWCC staffer and the FJ interviewer. But like the Hispanic groups, what evidence is offered about an actual “upsurge” in the number and weight of these gatherings?

Well, actually none.

As the FWCC staffer concedes: “I don’t think there’s been any concerted effort to collect statistics on these.”

So all we really know is that these two people like them. Based on the shoddy use of data on offer here, this is not exactly a convincing case, and the obvious bias (ignoring YMs with solidly measurable track records to boost a scattered, undocumented coterie) is tendentious to say the least. Perhaps they will get back to us about them when there is some authentic data gathered; if there ever is.

One last but important point concerns the international numbers on the new FWCC map. The FJ interviewer asks “Why do you think the Society of Friends is growing in other parts of the world . . .?” But in truth, it’s not easy to know where such growth is real or only apparent. FWCC accepts the numbers sent in.

But count me skeptical: in poor countries, population and demographic statistics are notoriously unreliable. Among the reasons in many places are deeply rooted patterns of corruption at many levels. In Kenya, particularly, there has been plenty of corruption in Kenyan Quaker circles too, and their numbers should be regarded with great reserve, even disbelief. (Here’s an informed observer’s discussion of this probleml )
Furthermore, I’ve had in depth conversations with educated Kenya Quakers, of good reputation and wide acquaintance in church circles, who reported that the Friends church there is actually in considerable trouble, sapped by corruption and internal quarrels, and losing very many younger members to rival sects. I can’t fully verify these reports, but they are as credible as untested numbers from official sources widely known to be unreliable; to me, more so. (After all, something similar is happening among many US evangelical churches.) By contrast, the impressions of visitors from the US who attend short conferences, don’t speak local languages, and are guided around by officials with agendas, are just that, impressions.

Kenya is important here, because its reputed membership is by far the world’s largest — 146,000 on the new FWCC map, twice as large as the US Quaker numbers. That is, it may be the largest; who really knows?

About other countries I will not speak, for lack of information. But I would suggest an assertively challenging stance toward the meme that evangelical Quakerism is burgeoning around the world, while the fey liberals of North America are dying out. Much of the purported evidence for this from overseas is quite shaky; and as we have seen, applying this “analysis” to the US is just plain bogus.
The FWCC interview reminds US liberal Quakers that “some humility and openness to learning is a good thing.” Which indeed they are. At the same time, I contend they (we) have little to be apologetic or defensive about either.

So contrary to the FJ interview’s thrust, I would urge liberal Friends not to be dismayed or disheartened by such unsupported refrains as the “dying US Quakerism” claptrap. Stand up and talk back to it. Do not let it rain on your peaceful, spiritually progressive parade.


And don’t fall for bogus scaremongering.

Meantime, Quaker officials and “journalists” who spread such dubious and tendentious “information” should clean up their act. It undermines your credibility. Friends deserve better and more professional performance from you.

The FWCC map is here:

The BYM data is from the 1991 and 2011 BYM Yearbooks.
The NCYM-FUM data is from their 1996 and 2006 Yearbooks.

Liberal Quaker History And The Present crisis: A Presentation to Green Pastures Midwinter Quarterly Meeting, Ann Arbor Michigan Third Month 15, 2013

Thursday, March 14th, 2013

When I was getting ready to retire last year, I came face to face with the Quaker value of simplicity.

No question — that’s always been the most complicated and difficult testimony for me. I mean, on some of the others, I’m at least on the charts — peace? I stayed out of the military, and went to lots of protests. Equality? I worked in the civil rights movement, and raised my three daughters on tales of Lucretia Mott and Harriet Tubman. Community? Well, I’ve sat through hundreds of committee meetings. Even the testimony we don’t ever talk about anymore, Temperance: I’m still a teetotaler, and my hero Lucretia would be proud.

But Simplicity — now that is a tough one. And especially as I was packing up to move, and looked around my old bedroom, at all the stuff on the shelves, jammed in the drawers and overfilling the closet, knew I had to face up to simplifying.

And as I took a kind of inventory of all the stuff, one discovery was particularly shocking to me: I haven’t thought of myself as much of a clothes horse, but somehow I had accumulated over fifty tree shirts. Actually, more like seventy-five of them. Fifty or so were Quaker-themed tee shirts. When they were all folded and stacked, I felt like the Imelda Marcos of cotton and polyester.

A few of my fifty-plus Quaker tee shirts.
A small sample of my failure to achieve simplicity . . .

In the end, I managed to unload a bunch of them, but I still have a bunch. And I mention this here because one of the ones that was hardest to part with was a deep red one, which was my cherished souvenir of my last visit to Ann Arbor

That time it was summer, 2001 I’m pretty sure, and I was here for a regional union conference. I was teaching adjunct courses at Penn State at the time, and we were trying to organize us and the teaching assistants. Ann Arbor seemed like the mecca for teaching assistant unionism. There were organizers from several campuses there, and we exchanged tee shirts with various logos on them.

The red tee shirt I brought home was imprinted with a distinctive message. Anybody recognize this logo? On the back it said at the top:

“I joined the union, and all I got was this lousy tee shirt.”

But under that was a long litany of union benefits.

It was great. So much so that when the great Simplicity winnowing was done, and I’d unloaded more than fifty of the heap of tee shirts, I couldn’t let go of that one. Not just because it brought back memories of a pleasant visit to Ann Arbor, but also as a marker of what I often think of as the Good Old Days. By that I mean not only the days before Sept. 11 of that same year, but before the great crash, and before the worst of the even greater Long Slide that preceded it.

My GEO Union Tee Shirt - A classic of the Good Old Days
A True Classic, of the Good Old Days . . .

Can anybody tell me how many union jobs Michigan has lost since 2001? Rough idea? How about non-union jobs? And how many Michigan cities are now under — what do they call it — emergency financial managers?

Yeah. I’m mentioning all this because it’s one key piece of background to what I have to share with you about my assigned topic this evening. That piece is the shrinking, and even collapse of the American middle class, not just here in Michigan but generally. It’s been really bad in North Carolina too, and there we had no unions to cushion the blows.

Another key aspect of this plight grows out of the work I retired from a few months ago, running a Quaker peace project next door to Fort Bragg, one of the largest US military bases, where I watched the American war machine up close through the last eleven years, what I call the Desolate Decade. There I saw, as have others, the rise of an American police and torture state, which is in place, unaccountable, and as corrosive of human rights inside our borders as it was indifferent to them overseas.

By and large, comfortable folks like us have not so far been targeted by this police state, except perhaps by having to take our clothes off, literally or photographically, to get on an airplane, as I did this morning. But the consolidation of this American police state, which took off during the previous administration in Washington, has been continued and strengthened under the current one, and it looks as if it’s here to stay.

I could also say something about the steady deterioration of the environment, but there I have no special expertise, other than breathing the air and drinking the water. But there is one thing: on August 23, 2011, I did feel the earthquake that rattled across the southeast and Mid-Atlantic, likely triggered by fracking, which is about to start in Carolina too. I remember it clearly, even though where I was sitting, it was no more than a mild shaking for a minute or so, with no damage. I shook a lot more afterwards, though, considering the implications.

Anyway, against this gloomy backdrop, what’s liberal Quakerism got to do with anything? Well, in my view, as I watch the space for free expression, free thinking and real dissent steadily shrinking under all these pressures, it’s my judgment that churches will be one of the last shelters for these diminished liberties. Churches will be among the last institutions ground under by the new Leviathan. I can say more about why I think that later if anyone has questions. But given that proposition, I also believe that if there is any hope for finding ways out of our increasingly dire predicament, churches are where much of the hope, the creativity, the courage and the resistance will be nurtured, especially for those of us who are involved with them.

And for most of us here, the seat of that hope means the spaces that we’re calling liberal Quakerism. They will need to be developed, protected, and passed on. This would be true even in normal times; it’s even more so now. And this thing called “Liberal Quakerism” didn’t drop out of the sky. Nor is it exactly what George Fox put together in his amazing career, despite what some Friends imagine. It developed, and how it developed makes a difference to how we think about it today, and how it can be preserved and passed on to the next generations.

By the way, Michigan Quakers played an important role in this development. We’ll get to that in a few minutes. First I need to say something about what theologians call “ecclesiology,” which has to do with the model of the church, its structure and governance and the beliefs or doctrines that shape it.

There are many kinds of church structures and ecclesiologies. At one end of a hypothetical spectrum there’s the Catholic Church, which is on everybody’s minds this week, or at least our TV screens, which manifests an imperial ecclesiology, headed by an infallible Pope in the Vatican, supported by a top-down worldwide hierarchy. At the other end, we can put the congregational ecclesiology of independent Baptists: there each church governs itself, and associates with other churches in a cooperative relationship of equals; there’s no hierarchy above the local church. And there are lots of other models in between.

One in-between model is of more than passing interest here, that of the Presbyterian church, which has a kind of two-tier structure: it has no pope or bishops, but local churches belong to regional groups called “presbyteries,” which are governed by councils of elders and ministers; it’s hierarchical in that local churches are accountable to the presbyteries, but has more input from below, and no single ruler at the top.

I mention this presbyterian model because early in Quaker history, by the time Fox died, a very similar model was taking hold. You can find it in the old Disciplines, which were first printed in about 1806. They speak very clearly of the Society of Friends as a hierarchical body: local preparative meetings were “subordinate” to Monthly Meetings, which were “subordinate” to Quarters, and all were “subordinate to the Yearly Meeting. If a “superior” meeting directed an “inferior” meeting (these terms are in all the Disciplines, by the way) to do something or stop doing something, the “inferior” meeting was obliged to obey, or it could be disciplined or even laid down.

Something similar was in place within meetings as well. If you’ve ever visited an old-style meetinghouse, a standard feature is a set of “facing benches” at the front of the meeting room. On these benches sat the elders, ministers, and overseers. They were expected to do most of the preaching (and in many there was a lot of preaching, compared to our silence-centered worship style of today.) And the facing benches were elevated, so this group could see over, that is, oversee, the meeting as a whole.

Facing benches in a
Facing Benches

Also, the folks on the facing benches held their own “Select Meetings:” they were a “meeting within the meeting,” and they pretty much determined how things would go in the meeting at large. I don’t know where the nearest such “classic” meetinghouse with facing benches is from here; there’s a fine example in Mt. Pleasant, Ohio, about 4 hours southeast, and another nearby in Barnesville.

This architectural and governance style was not arbitrary; it embodied an ecclesiology, a set of beliefs about what Quakerism was, and I need to say a little about that, because it’s much different from what we see today. The Society of Friends in the beginning and for two hundred-plus years defined itself as a chosen people, brought into being by direct action of the Spirit and call of God, to live in a distinctive way, separate from the rest of society, and to pursue a definite mission in the world.

This self-definition is set out in the introductory statement at the beginning of the earliest printed Disciplines, and it stayed there in later editions, both among Hicksites and Orthodox, until the late 19th century. Here is the key part of it:

AS it hath pleased the Lord in these latter days, by his spirit and power, to gather a people to himself; and, releasing them from the impositions and teachings of men . . . these have beenengaged to meet together for the worship of God in Spirit, according to the direction of the holy Law-giver; as also for the exercise of a tender care over each other, that all may be preserved in unity of faith and practice . . . .

For this important end, and as an exterior hedge of preservation to us, against the many temptations and dangers, to which our situation in this world exposes us, the following rules have been occasionally adopted by the society, and now form our code of discipline. . . .”

So. Quakerism exists because God gathered a people to himself — that’s us, Friends. God’s special chosen people. (I’ve found that the phrase “chosen people” makes some folks uncomfortable, but I still use it, because it speaks the truth about this Quaker self-definition.) And we’re gathered to worship God in God’s way — and worship includes not just meetings, but witness in and to the world.

But even so, we’re also called to keep separate from the world, and we’re in danger from the world — so we need an “exterior hedge” around us to protect, not merely the individuals — thee and me — but even more the gatherd ( i.e., “chosen) People, the group. The group, the “people,” is the constituting entity here, not individuals like you or me: we come and go: the group is what lasts. (This is, by the way, hardly a new idea in western christian religion.) And to protect the group, meetings have been arranged in this particular hierarchical order, and some members have been set apart to “oversee” the whole.

And these “overseers,” by all reports, did just that. They oversaw the lives and habits of Friends, to protect and preserve what came to be called “The Reputation of Truth,” or what might be called to day the Image of Friends, or the Quaker “brand.” In theory at least, this role wasn’t a “power trip.” For the overseers, it was their part of the group’s divinely-defined mission. And they were appointed to their offices for life.

So let’s call that quasi-presbyterian structure the “traditional” Quaker ecclesiology, or model of church structure and governance. It seemed to work well enough for a long time.

But by the end of the 1700s there were isolated rumblings and grumblings about how these circles of power were increasingly getting ingrown and oppressive. One early challenger was a woman minister from New York state named Hannah Barnard. She traveled to England and Ireland in 1799-1800, where she preached, among other things, that maybe some of the divinely-ordered genocide stories in the Bible were more tribal legends than the acts of a just and loving God. The elders and overseers in London Yearly Meeting called this heresy, and they got her disowned. Then there was in many places a heavy-handed strictness about all sorts of details of the Discipline’s rules, particularly those aimed at enforcing separation from “the world,” which got more and more people disowned for lesser and lesser offenses.

The major Separation in 1827 between what came to be called the orthodox and the Hicksites was in part about oppression by this elite. But not entirely, and the Hicksite leadership retained the “traditional” ecclesiological model after the split. The “gathered people” language stayed in the Hicksite Disciplines for several decades more.But with the evolution of Friends anti-slavery witness into increasing support for the abolition movement, these tensions ratcheted up several notches. Abolition from the beginning was an interdenominational crusade, in which activists from many churches cooperated. The Hicksite elders and overseers were against slavery, but they wanted Friends to stay away from these new reformist groups of the “world’s people,” or outsiders.

By the early 1840s, tensions over working with other groups, and discontent with the “traditional” model of “Oversight,” had reached a boiling point in many Hicksite groups. Among the Hicksite dissenters, none was more eloquent or visible than my hero, Lucretia Mott. Although she was a recorded minister herself, and thus part of the “Select Meeting,” she came to despise the structure and its restrictions on the cooperative social reform efforts she put so much energy into. And she was not quiet about it.

Lucretia Mott, My Progressive Quaker Hero
Lucretia Mott, My Progressive Quaker Hero

Lucretia was based in Philadelphia. But the first actual major insurrection against the traditional Quaker ecclesiological structure happened, of all places — here in Michigan. Not Ann Arbor, alas, but in Battle Creek. As historian Brian Wilson of Western Michigan University recently wrote, “The Battle Creek Monthly Meeting was officially established in 1836, and the first of several Quaker meeting houses in Battle Creek was built in 1843. One early observer remarked, “The town came very near being a Quaker colony, as a large number came among the early settlers.” Soon there were Hicksite meetings in Livonia, Adrian and Parma, and these made up Michigan Quarter of Genesee Yearly Meeting, which was centered around Rochester, New York.

Many Michigan Friends soon became active in the Underground Railroad and abolition. And the same tensions about this as elsewhere emerged, with the “facing bench” establishment insisting on separatism and quietism, and the activists wanting to join only with others to end slavery and promote other reforms. In response, in 1841 Michigan Quarter Friends took a radical step: they abolished the Select Meetings of Ministers and Elders. No more two-tier, quasi-Presbyterian ecclesiology for them; no more overseers telling them to keep quiet, stay away from abolitionist outsiders, and stick to the old ways.

Monument to the Underground Railroad, Battle Creek, Michigan
The Underground Railroad Monument in Battle Creek, Michigan. One thing I especially like about it is that it properly has the freedom-seekers in the lead; while some Quakers helped, the Railroad was an African-American freedom movement.

How they pulled off this coup I don’t know, and I would love for a journal or some letters to turn up, giving some of the juicy details. Maybe all the elders and overseers dozed off on the facing benches after a big lunch in the summer heat. Or maybe the rebels quietly shifted the location of the meeting, and wrote the minutes before the elders could find them.

After this coup, the reformed Michigan Quarter sent a minute up to its “superior body,” Genesee Yearly Meeting, urging that body to follow their lead and lay down their Select meeting as well. But the weighties on Genesee’s facing benches were not having it. After several years of back and forth, with the Michiganders standing firm, in 1848 Genesee exercised its authority under the traditional structure and laid down, abolished, the entire Michigan Quarter for “insubordination.” Bang, you’re dead, Friends.

This dramatic action had two effects: the battle Creek Meeting went off on its own, and in Genesee Yearly Meeting, at least 200 members and attenders walked out and formed another independent yearly meeting, which they called Congregational, or Progressive Friends.

That word Congregational is crucial: it meant an end to the quasi-presbyterian hierarchical structure, making monthly meetings autonomous, and the yearly meeting a strictly cooperative body. It also did away with separate status for ministers and elders. It was a giant step toward equality within the Society.

The term “Progressive” was important as well. It summarized the group’s agenda: forward-looking, focused on the positive future promised by “progress” in the world, on a variety of fronts, with ending slavery at the top of the list. Further, it reflected their identification with the burgeoning spirit of their time: the U.S. was awash in material progress — railroads, factories, telegrams, breakthroughs in many fields. Onward and upward! And the Progressives were confident that the same spirit and energy could solve social problems too, in much the same way that scientific challenges were met.

Progressives were also individualistic. The spirit of discovery was not something that worked by being submerged in a group, but by forging ahead in laboratory or through wilderness. Or by going outside the usual channels to work for abolition with new allies from other churches. Theologically, Progressives insisted that my individual leading from the Light could override the group’s dictates and customs. I can’t overstate how coplete a reversal of basic outlook this shift represented.

The Michigan outcasts soon formed an association called the Michigan Yearly Meeting of the Friends of Universal Progress, or Progressive Friends for short. The battle Creek Friends Meeting soon changed its name to “The Progressionists.”

This looser, more scattered organization, however, also produced a rather casual attitude about record-keeping, and no minutes of either the Progressionists or their yearly Meeting have been found. And the Michigan yearly meeting seems to have dissipated within a few years.

But the Progressive/Congregational spirit was spreading fast from Michigan into New York and other areas where there were Hicksite Friends meetings. Soon Progressive Friends groups sprang up in several pleas — and the group in Longwood, Pennsylvania lasted the longest, and even built a meetinghouse which is still standing today.

Longwood Progressives 1865

Longwood PA Progressive Friends, at their meetinghouse, 1865

As the Progressive/Congregational Friends insurgency tore through the Hicksite world, the spread of its ideas was spurred by its peculiar decentralized character. In the earlier Orthodox-Hicksite split, there were mutual mass disownments, and walls of separation went up between the rival groups that lasted for a century and more. But the Progressives didn’t really believe in separate membership: if you showed up, you were in.

This meant for instance, that Lucretia Mott, who was very active with the Pennsylvania Progressives, didn’t have to quit her Hicksite Philadelphia yearly Meeting to do so; the Progressives didn’t make her “join” in any official way. And although there were some Hicksite leaders who wanted to see her disowned, she was always a few steps ahead of them, and they never succeeded. So she served as a kind of double agent, working both sides of the Hicksite-Progressive street for years.

This fuzzy status was a big advantage for her: she traveled and preached widely among Hicksites, drawing large crowds, and as she did so she intentionally spread the Congregational virus –umm, I mean gospel – among her audiences. In fact, I regard Lucretia as a central figure in the long-term spread and impact of the congregational reform.

The Pennsylvania Progressives also wrote and issued a substantial manifesto in 1853, called the “Exposition of Sentiments. I put it online, and if the origins of modern liberal Quakerism are of interest to you, I urge you to look kit up and read it. I found it amazing ad electric when I came across it, almost 150 years later. In it there is laid out an agenda for internal reform of Quakerism that in essence described what you now find across the country in the FGC and independent yearly meetings.

I’ve already suggested the elements of this reform: abolition of the “Select meetings-within-the meetings of ministers and elders; laying down of those offices, especially as lifetime appointments; a congregational polity in which all Meetings were equal, and yearly meetings became cooperative service groups, not overlords. It put an individualistic theology in place of the group-centered “unity of belief and practice.” And an emphasis on reform and social progress as the essence of what Lucretia Mott often called “practical Christianity.”

As organizations, though, a similar fate came to almost all the Progressive bodies: by the time the Civil War endded, they were mostly gone, some with only wisps of a paper trail left to historians to piece together. The Pennsylvania group was a partial exception; but it too soon evolved into an annual gathering for lectures and what we would now call workshops, attended by interested individuals, much like a Chatauqua (or the FGC summer Gathering), with essentially nothing in between.

But if the Progressive meetings were gone, the driving impulses of the movement did not disappear. To the contrary, they ke[t spreading. Many Progressives returned to their Hicksite meetings — or had never left. Over time, they pressed for the internal changes that the Michigan Quarter and missionaries like Lucretia Mott had championed. And over time, the agenda of the Exposition of Sentiments was adopted. And as it was, step by step, Liberal Quakerism in its recognizably modern form came into being.

This process took a bit more than seventy years, but when in 1926 Friends General Conference approved a Uniform Discipline for its seven member yearly meetings, this unique document codified in print the reality that the Progressive/Congregational ethos had become the liberal Quaker DNA: there was no more talk of being a chosen, separate people: the Inner Light in each individual was the religious focal point. Gone were recorded ministers; the monthly meeting was now the central institution, subordinate to nobody; yearly meetings were service groups; the theology, if such it could be called, was minimalist and lightly held; and a strong emphasis on “doing good” in the world was heard throughout. The Uniform Discipline even endorsed what it delicately called, “social mingling,” in a veiled rebuke to the previous centuries of cultural isolation.

This FGC Uniform Discipline is also a landmark document, Progressive/Congregational through and through, and it too is now online. Once it was adopted in 1926, all seven of FGC’s member yearly meetings rewrote their own books of Discipline within a couple of years, and all of them followed the Uniform Discipline text very very closely.

I have argued that the Progressive movement, far more than the mysticism of Rufus Jones, has shaped what liberal Quakerism has become. I stand by this, even though until now, the Progressives have hardly been mentioned in the standard histories of Quakerism. There are interesting reasons for this, but not time to go into them right now.

So here we are. Liberal Quakerism today is the spiritual and organizational descendant of the Progressive Friends insurgency. And while few liberal Friends in the U.S. today know much if anything about this history, they –we — have pretty much absorbed the Progressive organizational DNA, and in my judgment there’s no going back. I’ve heard some murmurs about how we need to return to having elders, and more authority in our meetings. But I don’t see it happening in any large way, and I can’t say I favor trying to resurrect the traditional forms.

Still, the Progressive model has weaknesses as well as strengths. One weakness is that of fragmentation and disappearance into the vague liberal miasma; that’s evident in how quickly the movement vanished as a separate group. Today Liberal Quakerism lives a paradox: a bunch of fiercely indivudalistic spiritual seekers, who nonetheless as a body show a remarkable cultural uniformity It’s what, in the FGC and independent liberal Quaker yearly meetings, I call NPR and Downton Abbey Quakerism, and Geoff Kaiser refers to as The Society of Trends.

And another is that with the minimalism of structure and worship has come a corporate culture of minimalist thinking about the basis of the religious community, its issues and complexities. It’s counter-intuitive, considering the generally high level of formal education, but the “corporate culture” of liberal Quakerism in my experience is resolutely anti-intellectual when it comes to religion, especially its own.

Very few of us know much of our own history, or theology; episodes of “Quaker Culture Shock” are common and traumatic, when liberals discover that there are pastoral, evangelical, antigay Republican Quakers who prefer Fox News, and would really rather not explore the affinities between Quakerism and Buddhism, thank thee very much. Yet as this alone suggests, and our larger plight in a collapsing culture makes imperative, Liberal Quakers have a lot to think about as a community. We are, in my view, way behind on our church homework. And there will be a test, but not on paper for a grade.

Yet another, more perilous weakness to my mind flows from this minimalism of thought: we generally do a poor job of telling our story and passing along our religious culture to our own children. But I’m convinced such transmission is absolutely critical. Groups which fail at that are living on the brink of extinction, even without external persecution.

That’s part of what happened to the Progressive yearly Meetings after the 1860s. But I also know this from my own experience: I was raised in pre-Vatican Two Catholicism, a very intricate, ancient, and encompassing tradition. But I left it, and raised my four children outside it. And now, within my adult lifetime, neither they nor my five grandchildren have any idea what the rosary is, what is done with it, how many sacraments there are, or what an indulgence is — that’s all gone. I’m not sorry about that; but the quick and total disappearance of that culture from much of my life is still remarkable.

And it was all so easy: I didn’t have to lift a finger, or spend any money – yet, poof, 1200 years of tradition vanished. And Quaker kids who become adults without knowing much more about our founding tradition than the George Fox song are not really much better off.

One additional major loss from this cultural amnesia is that there are many great examples in previous Quaker generations, and even in our own, of creative witness and resistance in situations not so different from the one we face today. We have a very rich — and potentially useful– heritage to draw on. But overall we do very little with it, I’m afraid, and the liberal Quaker ethos, which is tilted toward “Progress” and puts its faith in the future, abets that.

Moreover, the loss of independent memory is one of the most insidious of the effects of our current cultural pathology. It is one of the key tools of oppression, to make alternative traditions and stories and ways of life disappear. For us in the U.S. today, this doesn’t usually require overt repression (although in situations like Occupy Wall Street, the authorities will make exceptions); usually though, alternatives just get drowned out amid the general noise and distraction.

And overall, I see much of liberal Quakerism playing right along. But what do we do when the “Progress” that’s been our group’s polestar turns against us, putting drones above and plunging our graduates into a a peonage of debt? When the future is more ominous than promising? Quakers have been in this situation before; but if we can’t or won’t remember what earlier Quakers did, we’re crippling ourselves in figuring out how to cope.

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The “Art Scene” in today’s new order - in this impromptu performance piece, a homeless man sleeps in the University of Michigan art gallery, under a sumptuous Tiffany chandelier, and shielded by huge Tiffany doors from a New York mansion, temporarily safe from the freezing winter outside.

Despite these weaknesses, which are serious, I’m not inclined to give up on Liberal Friends. That’s mainly a statement of faith: grace happens. God is not done with us, even in our inadequacy. Or let me put it this way: I joined liberal Quakers 47 years ago, and all I got was 75 tee shirts. And a tradition that didn’t let me get comfortable with that, or the world that produced them, and lots of ideas and examples of how to deal with our messed up world, if only I’ll look and learn. In fact, if I pay some more attention, maybe I’ll even learn someething about Simplicity. I hope you get the idea.

Copyright © by Chuck Fager 2013. All rights reserved.

Ann Arbor MI Friends Meeting
Ann Arbor Michigan Friends Meeting

Drawing Lines, Crossing Lines: Separations Among Friends, and Particularly in Indiana. Or: It Couldn’t Happen Here, Right?  Right??

Friday, March 8th, 2013

Based on an Adult Ed Presentation
Durham Friends Meeting 2-24-2013
Chuck Fager


I

Several years ago, two plain Friends from Ohio Conservative Yearly Meeting (OYM) visited North Carolina Yearly Meeting Conservative (NCYMC). I believe one of them was Seth Hinshaw, who is now their YM Clerk, along with a woman companion.

They came bearing a proposal that they wished NCYMC to receive and endorse. In it was a strong condemnation of any acceptance of homosexuality. 
Had NCYMC endorsed the proposal, the position of Durham Meeting (and not only Durham) as part of this yearly meeting would have become very difficult. Based on those views, for instance, Cleveland Meeting had already been forced out of OYM.

But nothing like that happened here. North Carolina’s Clerk rather deftly sidestepped it, in what I recall as a kind of Quaker Aikido move: the visitors were greeted and politely thanked. Their proposal was “received.” But it was not  considered or even discussed; it disappeared pretty much without a trace. The two plain Friends got the message, and soon left, looking sorely chagrined and disappointed.

What those Ohio Friends were engaged in was defining and enforcing boundaries. Their YM’s boundaries excluded any favorable dealing with LGBT persons and issues, and they wanted their North Carolina brethren to do the same. But NCYMC had different boundaries, which were distinctly fuzzy, regarding gender; and this fuzziness made a place for some of their larger monthly meetings, which were quite friendly to LGBT persons and same sex unions. The North Carolina Clerk was not about to enable any demand to redraw their fuzzy boundaries in a homophobic manner, and there was no objection to her deft derailing of the Ohio proposal

Setting and enforcing boundaries is a basic group function. As this example illustrates, Quakers do it, but not all in the same way, or along the same lines. And in our history, the way boundaries of thought and action get drawn and enforced have not only varied, they have often clashed. In some cases (too many) in our 360-year history, the outcome has been division, separation, and schism. That’s happened in many places, including North Carolina. And it is not only something from “The Olden Days”; it is also happening now.

In particular, I was recently asked by a local meeting’s Adult Ed Committee to talk about a current schism, in Indiana Yearly Meeting (IYM), a pastoral body. The conflict that produced it surfaced in 2008, after West Richmond IN Friends Meeting (near Earlham College) adopted a “Welcoming and Affirming” minute, which stated, in part: “We affirm and welcome all persons whatever their race, religious affiliation, age, socio-economic status, nationality, ethnic background, gender, sexual orientation or mental/physical ability. We offer all individuals and families, with or without children, our spiritual and practical support.” The complete  minute is here: http://www.westrichmondfriends.org/affirming.htm   

Some officers and pastors of Indiana Yearly Meeting, along with Friends from various other IYM Meetings, felt this statement was unacceptable for an IYM member body; in 1982, IYM (Like Ohio YM) had adopted a very negative minute about homosexuality. Thus the demand was raised that West Richmond should either withdraw the Welcoming minute or be obliged to leave Indiana YM. 

boundaries-drawing lines

West Richmond Friends declined to alter or rescind the Welcoming minute. And Last November, after four years of struggle, they along with a dozen other Meetings that were either sympathetic to or willing to tolerate West Richmond’s stance, were all forced out of IYM. Several other meetings are also leaving IYM as a result: a total of about 18 meetings of 64 in total; almost 30 per cent of the total.

Perhaps needless to say, many Friends in West Richmond and the other now-“outcast” meetings have found this four-year purge effort quite traumatic, and struggled long and hard to prevent it.

There are two questions about this conflict I want to consider. One, why were some in IYM so determined to force out West Richmond and the others? And two, can this schism in Indiana yield any insights about the wider Quaker world of today?

And maybe a third one could be shoe-horned in: Could it happen in YOUR meeting??

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To answer the first query (why were some in Indiana Yearly Meeting so determined to force out West Richmond Meeting for welcoming LGBT folks?) let me offer a proposition, or thesis, which is this: the IYM schism is clear evidence that most American Friends groups have serious difficulty managing real diversity. Because that’s what Indiana faced leading up to this rupture. It is also what has been pretty well banished with the division.
 
By “real diversity,” I’m talking about diversity of culture, theology, and politics, rather than what liberal Friends usually seem to mean by the term, which is to get more “people of color” to attend and join their meetings. The latter is a worthy goal, but in my experience usually carries with it the unspoken expectation that these people of color will be pretty much like “the rest of us” culturally and religiously. 

For most liberal Meetings I’m familiar with, let’s say in North Carolina, that’s a very different kind of diversity than, for instance, facing large number of newcomers who were technically “white,” but who, say, voted en masse for Romney (or Palin), love NASCAR, country & western, fervent Gospel preachers, and something called “praise music.” And who “support the troops,” the flag, the recent wars, and prefer Fox News to NPR. And who feel called to persuade all of us to accept Christ as our saviour so we won’t burn in hell. Oh — and who believe homosexuality is an abomination, because the Bible says something like that somewhere.

All these features are characteristic of a great many “white” people in North Carolina (who voted overwhelmingly in favor of a state anti-same sex constitutional amendment less than a year ago); yet my sense is that they are quite rare in the unprogrammed liberal Meetings in the state.

Amendment One supporter --- NC

But this kind of diversity is what Indiana YM had, and it gave rise to episodes of what I call “Quaker Culture Shock,” which can be very disorienting. I’ve been through it myself, and here’s part of an account by a member of West Richmond Friends, Stephanie Crumley-Effinger, who became very active in the pre-schism struggle:

“As a seeker in my early 20’s, in 1976 I discovered in West Richmond Friends a Meeting that was both clear in its Quaker Christian identity and widely welcoming of my spiritual searching, questions, and the deepening connection to Friends that had been nurtured through my years at Earlham College as a student. . . .

“I first attended annual sessions of Indiana YM in the summer of 1978. Despite my having had almost two years of involvement with West Richmond Meeting, this reunion of its extended family was foreign territory. It was fascinating, exciting, terrifying. I experienced huge theological culture shock, finding myself in a minority, feeling at sea amid the conservative majority. They resoundingly espoused evangelism and altar calls, holiness living and revival services – practices almost completely unknown to me. There were significant differences in language for religious experience, approaches to the Bible, worship style, hymns, and norms. People were expected to have a vivid testimony to a distinct salvation experience: to be able to name the place and date of their conversion to Christianity, the evangelist who was leading the service, the circumstances of becoming convicted of their sinfulness, and details of their experience of release from guilt and shame that came through their acceptance of Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.”  

There’s more, but you can read it for yourself, in the current issue (#22) of the journal, “Quaker Theology,” which is available on the web. 

(Quaker Culture Shock happens to evangelicals too, by the way.)

What could be called “diversity fatigue” accounts in my judgment for much of the pressure to split Indiana. It seems to break out like a fever among pastoral Friends every twenty years or so. The specific issues vary; but reading about past outbreaks often feels like deja vu. 


 Such schismatic drives don’t always succeed. But this time, those who wanted the purge were determined and relentless, while the West Richmond folks, more or less liberals, and accustomed to liberal passive aggressive ways including chronic conflict avoidance, stalled but didn’t really push back with any comparable resolve. I can’t hold back an editorial comment here: I think the liberals were wimps, who let themselves be pushed around, and then pushed out.

The way it happened is too long to summarize here (details are in “Quaker Theology”), but among other things it involved playing fast and loose with what many of us would think of as “Quaker process.”

And yet, even here there is real diversity. Liberals tend to think of “the sense of the meeting” as something approaching unanimity reached after the broadest possible discussion. In Indiana, the evangelical advocates held to an older view of authority in Quaker church governance, which is that the Society of Friends is really a two-tier body: Elders, recorded ministers, and pastors are the “shepherds” of the Quaker “flock” or rank and file. This “inside” group, many of whose members serve for life, holds its own meetings, and carries most if not all of the real weight in decisionmaking. In addition, local meetings are “subordinate” to yearly meetings, in a real hierarchy of power. Indiana YM retains a version of this structure, which has been strengthened by the current purge.

If this older approach sounds authoritarian and contrary to ideas of equality, it is. But it is also much, much older among Friends than the modern notion of a “Testimony of Equality,” which in fact only began appearing in our books of Faith & Practice a couple decades ago. For the first two hundred years of the Society, the two-tier hierarchical structure was the status quo. 

Weight of htge Meeting - an 1828 view
What the traditional method of Quaker decisionmaking looked like to some in 1828.

This eldering/oversight role was not simply a power trip. For about ten generations, Quakerism was conceived of as a separate, “peculiar” (which in George Fox’s time meant “chosen”) people, who has been divinely endowed with a distinct identity and mission that had to be protected from many outside (and some inside) threats of corruption. And far from enshrining the individualistic ethos of today, in these earlier times it was the body, the “peculiar people” and its divinely-mandated group identity which counted above all. The elders and ministers, who sat on elevated “facing benches” in meeting, were charged with that protective oversight mission. 

But ultimately, in the 1840s and 1850s, this hierarchical Quaker church structure began to be feel oppressive to many, and was directly challenged. The rebels were a group called Progressive Friends, who are little known today, but whom I believe were the direct spiritual and organizational forebears of Meetings like Durham, and bodies like FGC. The Progressives in Pennsylvania published a stunning manifesto in 1853, which is now online, and still well worth reading. 

PA Progressive Friends Minute Book

In it a group of liberals actually stood up on their hind legs and said, in effect, “We’re Mad As Hell About How Quakerism Is Structured And Run – And We’re Not Gonna Take It Anymore.” (That might be the first and last time so much plain speaking ever broke out among this branch.)

III

It took the Progressives and their spiritual descendants about seventy years of struggle, but they finally prevailed, at least in the liberal branches. This is a fascinating, important story, one as yet untold in our histories; but there’s no space to tell it here. (More on how this change happened is here.)

The identity and boundaries of these liberal Quaker groups are quite distinct and well-established. But they’re also mostly non-verbal, or confined to an oral tradition, with little awareness of how they came about. (I think this is a weakness, but it’s definitely part of the group style.) These boundaries are not necessarily permanent either; Meetings tinker with them, at least at the margins. But they’re also pretty culturally homogenous. 

How would such liberal Meetings manage an influx of NASCAR fans who loved Fox News, Sarah Palin, and “born-again” personal evangelism? My guess: mainly by avoiding it, or turning it aside. In one way, this approach has worked pretty well so far for the liberal meetings in North Carolina: no schisms. But it also promotes parochialism and cultural isolation. (Pick your poison?)

Occasionally I hear talk in liberal Friends circles about how it would be good to bring back key elements of the old traditional structure: some say we need  to have designated elders and recorded ministers, who meet to support each other, “hold each other accountable,” etc. 

Personally I’m very skeptical of this agenda as a set of boundary changes. Why? Simply: the record. One of the old structure’s biggest drawbacks, as the Progressive Friends eloquently asserted, was that it nurtured power struggles and doctrinal witchhunts. And in the US, what came out of that combination was – 

Purges. Splits. Schisms. Separations. And there have been dozens more such splits in the branches which retain versions of this church structure (like Indiana). If something similar was resurrected in liberal unprogrammed bodies, I predict the same troubles would soon re-surface there. 

I started this reflection by recalling the two Friends from Ohio Conservative YM, which still has that structure, visiting North Carolina Conservative YM to urge it to join its denunciation of any affirmation of homosexuals; that is to say, to redraw our boundaries. Such a redrawing was certainly possible: on paper, at least, NCYMC still maintains the old two-tier structure. But as the Clerk’s response to the OYM incursion showed, NCYMC’s officials are much too prudent to go down that road– for which I say, thank goodness. 

But there are definite rumblings along these lines in the other, larger North Carolina YM, the one with pastors and churches. Its membership is much more representative of the bulk of the state’s indigenous white, and I worry that the Indiana virus could spread there too.

I’ve been following the Indiana situation, and others like it, pretty closely for several years. In the journal “Quaker Theology,” we’ve already published five reports about the Indiana split, going back to 2010.  All of them are online, at www.quaker.org/quest

What will be the outcome of the Indiana split? I don’t know the future, but the record of history marks a clear path: among the many similar schisms in the programmed groups, one outcome has been a steady decline in membership and attendance, which has been happening in Indiana as well. So it does not seem to work well as a “church growth strategy.” Similarly, over the past century, it has not proved to be an effective preventive of further splits, when the periodic fever rises again.

A California Friend, Geoff Kaiser, has produced a large chart that visually summarizes and comments on North American Quaker history in one large oversized page. In the chart’s 2011 edition, as part of the corner devoted to the evangelical branch, he has inserted a blank square which is marked as reserved to record future schisms there, which he fully expects to occur before 2020. And as if on cue, Indiana YM has corroborated his barbed prediction.

Kaiser: Saving space for future evangelical splits

It makes you wonder: who will be next?

        “Quaker Theology” online: www.quaker.org/quest

Chuck Fager

Reading Religious Murder Mysteries For Relaxation, Fun and Sometimes A Bit of Spiritual Growth

Friday, October 26th, 2012

Liz Yeats

[Reprinted by permission from The Best of Friends, Vol. 1, a collection published by the Fellowship of Quakers in the Arts, in 2000. A lot of interesting mysteries have been published since then, but this is a good starter.]

I know no better relaxation than curling up in my favorite chair with a nice cup of tea and good murder mystery. Make it a well written religious, murder mystery that delves into spiritual, theological, and social concerns, and you have my perfect afternoon; my Sabbath from the cares and drudgery of my personal and professional life; a time and space suspended from reality. Yes, a virtual time and space in which I can exercise my mind trying to determine who done it and why!
Murder mystery

Early in my adult life, just before I became a member of the Religious Society of Friends, I began reading murder mysteries. It became a regular practice during my sojourn in rural Vermont where I worked for the American Friends Service Committee. I had always loved theater, even settling for that which was not particularly high grade on television or available Off-Off Broadway. But Rutland, Vermont had very little theater and living between two mountains there was no television reception. Besides, I had to catch my leisure time between my many meetings and phone calls. Wanting a more interruptible but engaging form of entertainment, I turned to reading mysteries.

Mysteries fit my needs. They are cheap, even free if one has access to a good public library, readily available, most often short, thus light in weight and intensity. They travel well, especially the paperbacks and you can hold them up in bed even after a long day.

More important, the good ones reflect some interesting aspects of past or contemporary culture, religion and/or politics. They deal with human good and evil. All mystery authors are posing a puzzle and sketching a solution to the puzzle through the thoughts and actions of the characters. To me, the better authors are those who use their mysteries to ask questions with which they struggle themselves, and through their characters explore how the human mind works, especially how people treat one another, care for one another, and solve problems. A well-crafted mystery is a puzzle of the human spirit. Who did it, how did they do it, and, most important of all, why?

The most wonderful thing about mysteries is they aren’t real. In fact, I shy away from the ones that are too realistic. This is part of what makes reading mysteries a spiritual activity for me. They are a Sabbath for my soul. I spend too much time weighed down by the incredible level of real violence in this world, wondering how humans can be so inhumane to one another. I struggle to develop tools to educate toward ending such evil. Often, I grow intense and discouraged, but I still find the issues involved with human good and evil fascinating.

How wonderful to be able to ponder those same issues in the make-believe of the murder mystery. I can sit back fully in control and wonder why one character has killed another. If the book upsets me, I can put it down and leave its world. I don’t have to live with the characters or wonder what I could do to prevent the next murder. I can examine the way the author portrays the human interactions, see just how diverse human thought and behavior can be, and then move on.

At times, a mystery has actually “spoken to my condition” in the same way that a message in meeting for worship sometimes presents a new insight or a path to ponder. This was true with some of the first mysteries I read, those of Dorothy Sayers.

Sayers lived in the first years of the twentieth century when most women were not permitted careers, even in academia. Yet Sayers created the character of Harriet Vane, assistant and eventually wife to detective Peter Whimsey, as a strong, intellectual, caring woman who seeks an academic career. Growing up in the fifties and sixties in the United States, I often felt marginalized as a strong and competent young woman. Sayers’ characterization of Vane spoke to me far better than the stereotypical female heroines in the required canon of my high school and college days.

Amanda Cross was another author I discovered. A feminist, Cross created Kate Fansler, a 50ish, intellectual, New York City English professor, part-time detective and loving wife to a law professor. When Kate’s friend Sylvia begs her to take a temporary teaching position in Boston so that she can investigate a murder in Death in a Tenured Position, Fansler affirms her relationship with her husband, Reed, saying, “Reed always knew I had to have times without him. I always knew that he never bored me when I was with him. Though I miss him, I don’t pine for him when we’re apart, nor pine for solitude when we’re together. Greater tribute hath no woman.”

Now, there’s an image of a strong, faithful, but independent woman, the kind of woman that at thirty, I could hope to become.

Another set of mysteries that intrigued me early on were those of husband and wife, Maj Swojall and Pere Waloo. These Swedish authors wove violent, suspense-filled tales in the Stockholm of the 1960s. But in between the blood and gore they put wonderful scenes of Swedish family life. I remember one scene in particular, though I have not been able to locate it, where the detective and his wife engage in a pleasant interlude of early morning sex, unashamed when their young children enter the room.

Something I probably never considered reenacting, but a slice of real life presented with such warmth and whimsy that I began to think about the family life I did want to create. The plots of these mysteries have fallen away but the alternative family behavior Swojall and Waloo depicted has remained with me for over 20 years.

Closer to my experience was the suburban Jewish community in Harry Kemelman’s Rabbi Small series. These books, named for days of the week, pair the young, scholarly Rabbi Small with the older, seasoned, Roman Catholic police chief Hugh Lanigan. Rabbi Small often finds himself defending his community, a group that does not always embrace Small’s role as judge and scholar, not pastor, of his congregation.

Kemelman uses the books to explore and educate about modern Judaism and its place in suburban America. A professor and philosopher of education by vocation, he sometimes seems less involved with the plots of the murders than with the aspects of society out of which they grow and the theological concerns which they raise. In fact one might see the Rabbi mysteries as parables on modern life, each one carefully constructed to raise a social/psychological issue, explore its theological implications and teach a careful lesson about the morally and ethically correct life.

Coming as I do from a Jewish family, Kemelman’s learned but accessible exploration of Jewish law and its application to twen-tieth century life drew me into pondering my own religious convictions. In the end, these well-written and enjoyable stories affirmed my choice to leave American Judaism. Kemelman’s Rabbi Small articulates a Jewish religion that is a “code of ethical behavior,” not a faith in a God who is active in this world. This described well the Judaism of my parents and grandparents.

Yet, I have always felt that the only fully observant Jew I knew as a child, my Great Grandpa Welikson, lived with a faith in a God who was mysterious but active in this world. I was never able to explore this fully with him as he died when I was about seven and this faith filled kind of Judaism seemed unavailable to me as I matured religiously in my twenties. By the time I read these mysteries, I found myself experiencing a faith in a God within, an experience that was fully honored among Friends where I found my spiritual home.

After discovering the Rabbi series, I looked for more religious mysteries. Writing in his extensive study of this genre, Mysterium and Mystery, The Clerical Crime Novel, William David Spenser says “My theory is that the modern mystery novel is a secularized form structured on the ancient mysterium or revelation of God’s judgment and grace…The mystery story itself, in its quest for the criminal and interdiction of evil and restoration of the good, images the quest through a fallen world for the great good God.”

As a Quaker, I might say it a bit differently, talking about the ocean of light overcoming the ocean of darkness, as George Fox did. In the religious murder mystery this theme is particularly clear. In a sense, good wins out every time the detective solves the case, making the whole genre a very positive one. Perhaps that’s why I like and read religious mysteries so much. So I have read a great many, too many to review them all here, but I want to discuss some of the best and particularly those written by and about Quakers.

The best written religious mysteries I’ve consumed to date are by Ellis Peters (a pen name for the British author Edith Pargeter). In these 20 short books Cadfael, a 12th century, socially concerned herbalist, Benedictine monk becomes a practiced detective using common sense and a bit of prayer to root out evil in and around the English town of Shrewsbury. The medieval setting is beautifully researched and described. Best of all, the Abbey of Saint Peter and Saint Paul actually existed in Cadfael’s time and you can still visit some of the buildings today.

The first of these books, A Morbid Taste for Bones, illustrates well Cadfael’s propensity to stray from the strict Catholic rule of his order and follow common sense to help good triumph over evil. The tale centers around the discovery of the bones of Saint Winifred in Wales, not far from Shrewsbury, and the attempt by Cadfael’s superiors to transfer these relics to their abbey church.

Cadfael is dispatched with the procurement party because of his facility with the language, not because he has much interest in relics. In Cadfael’s mind there is much question about transporting the bones of a Welsh saint to England and even some skepticism about the practice of honoring relics at all.

In fact, Peters portrays many of the monks of Cadfael’s community rather negatively as slaves to their practices and hunger for power. Cadfael, on the other hand, readily admits his own and others frailty but seeks a just, and in this case wonderfully surprising end, even if it means some infractions of the community discipline.

I greatly enjoy Peters’ portrait of life in medieval Shrewsbury, her well-drawn and often humorous characters, the romantic themes that run through all of the stories and her depiction of human conflict as a universal problem through time. I sometimes wonder though if Cadfael might be a bit anachronistic in his thoughts and behavior, more the ideal twentieth-century healer of the spirit and champion of justice than the simple, kindly, herbalist monk of medieval times. Even given the background Peters creates for him as a soldier in the crusades and a lover of many beautiful women before he joined the order, he seems a bit worldly at times.

But never mind. These books are great fun and I would be looking for more, but Pargeter died last year and with her Cadfael, a great loss to me and many others.

Another author who explores religious themes through mysteries is Faye Kellerman. I find Kellerman’s mysteries real page turners because of well-crafted plots and good descriptive narrative. In one of her most recent books, Prayers for the Dead, she explores the responsibilities of men and women to the family through a contemporary Catholic, Protestant and Jewish lens.

Kellerman does not use a cleric as detective. Instead her main character is a police detective, Peter Decker, who has reclaimed his Jewish heritage in the process of a romance with an Orthodox widow named Rina. In the first few books of this series we watch the recently divorced, insecure, lonely, and alienated Los Angeles policeman, Peter, who grew up with adoptive Baptist parents, get convinced and converted to Orthodox Judaism, marry Rina and become a happy, though harried, father and family man.

In Prayers, Peter investigates the murder of a prominent surgeon with evangelical leanings whose large family includes a son who has become a Catholic priest. Kellerman poses the question among others, “how does one lead a balanced life in light of modern demands of profession, family and personal interests,” a question with which I struggle often. Peter, the priest, several colleagues of the doctor and even Rina struggle with their responsibility to their family as opposed to other commitments.

As do other good authors I have read, Faye Kellerman asks questions, explores the implications through the thoughts and actions of various characters but never presents a perfect solution. She leaves you to ponder the question long after you have finished the book.

In recent years I have discovered that a few Quakers have written murder mysteries. Some, like Sarah Smith of Friends Meeting at Cambridge, New England Yearly Meeting, write wonderful novels full of murder, suspense and social commentary but do not focus on religion or Friends at all. Sarah Smith has published two, The Vanished Child and The Knowledge of Water, but neither mentions Quakers. Other Quaker authors, such as Stanley Ellin, who won the Edgar Award from the Mystery Writers of America three times, have written many books, one or two of which have some Quaker content.

In the 1970s I often enjoyed sitting on the porch at New York Yearly Meeting and chatting with Stanley Ellin, member of Brooklyn Monthly Meeting. Though I knew he was an author, it wasn’t until after his death that I discovered he wrote mystery/suspense stories and that in 1973 he had published a mystery about Quakers titled Stronghold. After many years of searching for a copy and viewing a rather disappointing video version, one of two available, Chuck Fager loaned me a copy of the book for this review. I recommend it highly as a good read and perhaps the best advertisement for the Quaker ideal of overcoming violence through group prayer, discernment and nonviolent action.
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The story takes place in rural, upstate New York, in fact an area Ellin had become familiar with while attending Yearly Meeting. The wealthy, leading family of a tiny monthly meeting comes under siege by a group of heavily armed ex-cons, one of whom they had taken into their home as a wayward teen. After violently assaulting both men and women in the family, the ex-cons demand millions of dollars from the family-owned bank and take the women hostage until the money and transportation are provided.

Drawing from their experience with nonviolent resistance and Friends’ practice of corporate silent worship to discern correct action, the whole meeting pulls together to face this psychopathic murderer and his three henchmen.

Ellin’s Quaker characters are very real. I know every one of the members of the meeting he creates because they are in my meeting and in every meeting of which I have been a part. As they gather for meeting for worship with attention to business to decide how to handle the situation, the members of the meeting reveal themselves: Anna and Elizabeth, two elderly but tough spinsters who want to take the place of the women hostages, the Quimbys, a young couple who are pressured by the demands of work and family life but are still the peace and social action Friends in the meeting; and Uri, a Nazi concentration camp survivor who at first lacks the faith that evil can be overcome by the nonviolent action proposed, especially since it involved telling lies.

The necessity to lie is explored extensively through the thoughts of Marcus Hayworth, the head of the family under siege, who tells much of the story. Suspense-filled and quite bloody to the very end, Stronghold does an excellent job of exploring the central Friends concept that although people behave in evil ways, there is some of God in each of us, even the most disturbed and violent.

Stronghold has become my favorite mystery to recommend to a seeker trying to grasp Quaker faith and practice. It does a more complete job of communicating Friends testimony and practice than Chuck Fager’s attempt in Murder Among Friends. On the other hand, Fager has a flair missing in Ellin’s work. Though it seems as if Marcus in Stronghold is modeled partly after the man Ellin aspires to be, the character is missing the wit and humor of the author. One of the best things about Murder Among Friends is the way Chuck Fager has modeled the central character after himself, capturing some of his best elements, his humor, his love of history and his desire to get the story.

Fager sets Murder, his first mystery, at a pan-Quaker conference in the western Virginia hills. All types of Friends gather for an exchange of ideas, but end up witnessing the murder of a prominent evangelical preacher who has been invited to address the group. The book is made richer by the inclusion of local Virginia and Quaker history and one well drawn character, a Quaker elder named Lemuel Penn. Our narrator, a rather innocent, hapless, gentle reporter, a Fager seem-alike, hangs out with Penn as they both try to limit the violence and understand how and why the murder was committed.

Unfortunately, the plot seems somewhat far-fetched and Fager has a strange way of portraying women, especially strong Quaker women. He has a long way to go before he reaches the skill of Daisy Newman, the New England Quaker author of a series of novels about Friends. The women and men in Newman’s novels ring so true to my experience that I’ve often wondered which came first, the people or her portrayal. Nevertheless, I think Fager succeeds in his attempt to write an enjoyable book that provides some information about contemporary rifts in Quakerism and teaches non-Friends and seekers a bit about Friends.

I’m not entirely sure what Fager is attempting in his second mystery, Unfriendly Persuasion. Again the main character is a mild-mannered Fager clone, this time a postal worker, Chuck’s former bread labor. Again the women behave strangely. They all seem to be pressed from a stereotypical mold and have very little initiative or brains. There is much less Friendly content here than in Murder but I still found Unfriendly an enjoyable read as it tackled some questions about integrity in our modern world. I look forward to the next Fager mystery and feel he has a much more positive future as a fiction writer than as an investigative reporter stirring up controversy among Friends.

The final set of mysteries that I want to review: Quaker Silence, Quaker Witness, Quaker Testimony, and Quaker Indictment, were all written recently by Irene Allen. Allen became familiar with Friends in Cambridge, Massachusetts while she was doing graduate work at Harvard University. She attended Friends Meeting at Cambridge and ultimately became a member of the Society. Three of her four mysteries are set in Cambridge and all have Elizabeth Elliot, Clerk of the meeting, as the detective and central character. The fourth mystery takes place in Washington State, where Elizabeth goes to visit a former college roommate and ends up investigating a murder near the grounds of the Hanford Nuclear Plant.

Allen describes Friends’ practice extensively in all of the books, all the plots revolve around issues of concern facing contemporary Friends in their meetings and personal lives and most of the well developed characters are Quakers. This plus the familiar, well-described settings (I attended Cambridge Meeting for 5 years and lived in the Northwest for two), made these books an enjoyable read for me.

However, I would hesitate to recommend them enthusiastically to someone as capturing the full spirit of Quakerism. For a long time I have pondered why this is so. One reason is that Allen’s descriptions of Quaker faith and practice sometimes become ponderous and preachy. Perhaps this is because she is a new Friend.

In addition, I find she dwells too much on the negative, ending each of the books with Elizabeth Elliot weighed down with concerns about members of the meeting and the world. Especially in the last book, she dwells overly on Elizabeth’s age and the physical limitations that she suffers. We are left with the sense that Quakers are stodgy, handicapped, dour, old people who carry the cares of the world on their shoulders.

This is not my experience. One of the reasons I am a Friend is that most Friends know how to have a good time, expressing joy often and moderating their serious intent to do good by exercising a healthy sense of humor. In this way, I find Ellin’s and Fager’s mysteries paint a better portrait of the Society of Friends. More important, they provide a better chance to kick back and relax.

Let me conclude this review with the following paraphrase, “So many religious murder mysteries, so little time,” and the hope that you will find some of those I have discussed or others, please read them relaxation, fun and sometimes, a little bit of spiritual growth.

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Are Friends Tired? More Conversation With YAFS

Wednesday, May 18th, 2011

If you’ve stopped by this blog in the past ten days or so, you may have seen my lament about being invaded by Zombie posts that refused to die, or be deleted.
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Here they Come! AArrgghh!

A few days ago, when I got some expert help to examine why, it turned out there was some very bad code hacked onto the site, which we hope is now rooted out. A salutary reminder that it’s an internet jungle out there, and hacking our way out was a tough fight. But at the moment, this blog seems to be Zombie and virus-free. (Cross fingers.)

One additional effect of this invasion was that the Comments feature was somehow disabled, and for the past two month, no reader replies ever got through to be moderated and posted.
Thus if you sent a comment and are miffed because it never appeared or was even acknowledged — my apologies, but I was NOT ignoring or shunning you — I never even saw it. ( I believe the Comment feature is now working again.)

And so back to business. One of the last posts was entitled, The Gospel According to YAFS: Are Friends “Tired”?? Plus: Fix It With “The Seven UPs”.

This post was a detailed response to a piece in the Western Friend by YAF Paul Christiansen of Seattle’s Salmon Bay Meeting, “Younger Blood, Older Eyes”. In it I noted a voiced concern about some YAFs feeling left out and shut out by OFFs (”Old Fart Friends,” of which your humble servant is a specimen, but not near Seattle).

In response I recommended a recipe for YAFs (and anyone else so moved) to consider for helping remedy some of the perceived shortcomings of American Quakerdom, 2011 edition. The snappily titled list was called “The Seven UPs,” to wit:

Show Up.

Read Up.

Speak up.

Ante up.

Smarten Up.

Toughen Up. And

Don’t Hurry Up.


For details, consult the previous post.

Anyway, Paul was good enough to answer, by email after the blog comments section didn’t work. And we’ve had a bit of back-and-forth since.
This conversations as meant to be shared, so I’m posting it here, in only slightly edited form. I would have done it sooner, but — well, life and work intervened, as they have a way of doing.
To begin with, Here’s Paul’s initial response to my blog post:

Paul Christiansen wrote:

Chuck,

I feel like there’s a better way of contacting you but I haven’t found it, so I’ll take the roundabout method. Here’s my (2nd try) response to your blog post
responding to my article…

Overall, I appreciate your response, Chuck. However I will note that I never intended this to describe all of Quakerdom, and I’m not even sure if it accurately describes what’s going on in my own North Pacific YM. Hence all the qualifiers in my first sentence. But I talked with a variety of people for about
a year before publishing this, and what you saw is mostly what I heard.

I’m concerned that your “Read Up” leaves a little out. Obviously there’s a huge amount of literature out there, but sometimes I’d like to learn the history of my yearly meeting’s decisions over the last 20 years (the parts that didn’t make it into the minutes!), and sometimes I want to hear what my elders at Eastside [Meeting] have to say, and sometimes I want stories I can use to help teach the generation after me. Handing Barclay or Jones to a five-year-old won’t do much… but we’ve got to tell the five-year-olds something.

Also, the “cause” part wasn’t actually in my article, just the comments over at Western Friend, because it’s not at all fully seasoned. And you’re right, although I’ve lately been considering the interconnection of many causes. (My most recent blog post says more.)

Lastly, you advise us to speak up and toughen up…

A) Does that mean you’re absolving your generation of responsibility?
B) There’s a reason I wrote this article!

Paul

A Welcome opener. Here was my reply:

Hi Paul–

. . . As for your particulars, your points carry more weight for me if they’re qualified, as to time and region, for instance.

And I’m totally with you on your desire to learn more about NPYM than what appears in the minutes. Having done some historical work, I join with the other Quaker historians who have lamented that formal minutes are typically almost useless for real understanding. In fact, I’ve come to the conclusion that the customs of minute-taking for Friends add up to a big disservice in too many cases, not only leaving us I’ll-informed, but actually disempowered.

There’s a piece in Friends Journal for May 2011 (”The Task of the Recording Clerk: Spiritual Exercise and Ministry” - not online) about being a recording clerk, which repeats all these errors, and I need to take it on. Also, I have a book coming out next month that addresses some of these issues from another angle: turns out early Friends were not always such paragons of truth-telling, especially when it came to foundational Quaker history. Some shocking stuff, at least it shocked me.

So what to do when minutes are opaque? I can’t think of a catchphrase for it using “up,” but doing some research (”Study Up”??) and asking lots of questions, especially of older Friends, seems very much in order. I’ve learned a lot from quiet older Friends (older than me, mostly now dead) who were persuaded to talk (sometimes We had to use waterboarding, but it was worth it). I also learned a lot, too late, from long memorial minutes; if you don’t already, I’d urge you to
read the ones in both WF and FJ regularly.

And don’t take my questions about “causes” as a complaint. If that needs to be explored and threshed, so be it. I’ve heard similar comments before, and while I may not understand them entirely, that doesn’t mean I dismiss them.

As for absolving my generation from anything, this is where “Read Up” could also come usefully Into play. I’ve spent much of thirty years’ work tackling the manifold screwups of my cohort of Friends. There are 134 issues of my gadfly Quaker newsletter now archived online, which put actual investigative reporting skills to work on the Quakerism of my time, early 1980s thru early 1990s–and never ran out of material. (They’re linked to the blog-look at the link listing in the right column; read ‘em for free.)

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Yes, it was actually on paper!

A couple of books, too: “Without Apology,” on liberal Quakerism generally, and “Quaker Service At The Crossroads,” about AFSC and some of what came home to roost there a couple years ago.
Without apology Cover - 2005

Other work looked further back, at the early days and issues of American liberal Quakerism, by no means uncritically, and a collection, “Shaggy Locks and Birkenstocks.”

One piece there might be particularly relevant, which points to and decries the “Age of Amnesia” that’s reigned among liberal Friends for most of a century, and which too many in your generation seem ready to both perpetuate and cavil about.

Interrogating us geezers is one way out of it, but not to the neglect of the “Read Up” admonition. I strongly suspect that a great deal of what you’re looking for (yes, even much of the inspiration regarding possible causes) is already there and available, but it won’t speak itself from the pages; younger Friends will have to dig it out. That includes what you need to clean up the mess me and mine are leaving behind . . .

Peace,

Chuck

Then Paul came back:

Chuck,

Yes, sorry about the wrong email, but I truly couldn’t find any other!

I’ll definitely do some digging — I majored in history at Earlham, surely I can do some research. And thanks for the tip about the memorial minutes, I’ll start reading those.

I’m concerned, however, that your original post is starting to draw some ire from some Young Adult Friends. If you’d mentioned talking to elders in the “Read Up” section it might be a different story, but I’m already hearing from some in my circle that as it stands, “Read Up” comes across as rather dismissive.

And “Toughen Up” in particular is drawing some flak. I don’t expect Quakerism to be an easy faith. Quite the contrary, it’s probably among the toughest out there. But there is an enormous difference between our faith being an uphill climb and being a wrestling match.

As a teacher, and not long ago as a student, this is how I see it: if a student is struggling with a subject, a teacher can be supportive or leave the kid to flail. The subject remains a challenge regardless, but the approach the teacher takes can make all the difference. And to say, “Go do it on your own” or “Just tough it out” will probably come across as leaving the kid flailing.

I’m sure it was not your intent, and I don’t think it’s serious yet — but there’s a real danger some my age will start to see you as part of the problem.

I do thank you for the tips, and for your conversation; in fact I was a bit stunned and delighted that “a known name” was taking such note. 

In Light,

Paul

And my reply:

Hi Paul,

         Very interesting, and you said the magic words: “a wrestling match.” However, my take on the phrase is different; I DO expect Quakerism, and serious religion generally, to be a wrestling match. In fact, one of my all-time favorite religious books is “Godwrestling,” by Rabbi Arthur Waskow; and I commend it (the first edition more than the later revision) to your attention. (An Interesting discussion of Waskow’s concept is here.) The impact is laid out in the early part of my book “Without Apology,” and explored further in another, “Wisdom & Your Spiritual Journey.” But I’m happy to talk about it too. 

         The notion comes from two sources: Genesis Chapter 32, where Jacob wrestles with God all night, fights God to a draw so that God has to cheat to beat him, and extracts a blessing –but the blessing turns out to be a change in name from Jacob to “Israel,” which means “the God-wrestler.” And this name (and its motif) becomes the name, the paradigm and signifier of the people Jacob/Israel fathers, down to our very day. (The implications of the motif is supplemented and expanded by most of the rest of the Hebrew scriptures, particularly Job, Ecclesiastes and some of the Psalms.)

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Two Generations of Early Friends engaged in “deep discernment”; aka Jacob wrestling God

         The other source is my experience, as a Friend and as a person. Life may not be ALL struggle, but an awful lot of it is, especially when it come to the things that matter about religion. That’s how it’s been for me, at any rate. Much more could be said about that, at another time; for a sample, check this link, “A Letter to the Next Director of Quaker House”

         And yes, this frame of struggle applies within Quakerism too; one of my complaints about formal minutes is that they are designed to squeeze almost all evidence of this out of the record, which to me is not simply an error, but a sin against future generations of Friends.

         For that matter, it is very common in religions for there to be processes of “formation” which include rites of passage, often taking the form of various sorts of ordeals or tests from vision quests by Native Americans to young Mormons going off to spend two years riding bicycles in neckties (now THERE’s an ordeal). One of the great weaknesses of liberal Quakerism, in my view, is our lack of same. (I don’t think the Evangelicals do a lot better, but that’s another story.) 
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Hmm. Is there something here Quakers could learn from??

         It begins to appear that for some in the rising group, looking askance at elders may be part of an improvised passage. And if it could be that working up the gumption to beard an often grumpy old man can serve a bit of that function for some, then I will not have lived entirely in vain; if that’s a contemporary form of our religious struggle, so be it.  Of course, it could also just reinforce the received habits of passive aggression and conflict avoidance. (Sigh.) 

         The upshot for me is that if some take “Read Up” as dismissive, well, sit with it a bit, because I’ve no inclination to dial it back. It’s not a substitute for talking; I’ve done plenty of that (e.g., twenty years of week-long workshops at the FGC Gathering), and will do more. But I’m mindful of a shortcoming of talk, which is that it isn’t much use to those who weren’t present to hear it.

And yeah, I am biased toward those who do serious homework. Busted. Guilty. In that sense, I think of full-fledged Quakerism somewhat the way I think of urology or plumbing: when one of them is called on to mess around with my pipes, I want them to know their stuff, and no fooling, which takes time, study and practice.

        I’d like to hear more about the misgivings regarding “Toughen Up.”  If it’s interpreted as suggesting all younger Friends are a bunch of wimps, that was not my implication. Nor was it a charge to “Shut Up” and “Put Up” with an unsatisfactory status quo. Quite the contrary. I’m all for stirring the pots and upsetting applecarts, and have a track record of that. The point was that doing this for real, rather than for pretend, often involves grit and guts and results not only in the change we want, but also in scars and losses. Yes, even among Friends. 

        One incident, of which I read a reliable account somewhere, but don’t have documented online: Philadelphia Orthodox YM refused to have any official contact with Philadelphia Hicksite YM until a session in the 1920s, when a prominent Orthodox elder rose and made an impassioned plea that the body repeal this ban. The elder was challenging the entrenched practice of nearly a century, supported most by many of his weightiest peers. Yet as he did so, he was suffering from a terminal illness which was to kill him within the year, a fact known (but not spoken of) by his key listeners.

This “last stand” reversal of his own long history turned enough stone hearts (perhaps only temporarily) to flesh that his request was granted. Need I add that this drama was not reflected in the minutes? (This story has a happy ending; not all do.) Here is a short description of the process.
        And a thought about teaching. There are different styles. Mine will be applied in a workshop at the FGC Gathering this summer, and here is an excerpt from the description:

             << High-content: will include Bible, history, and serious thought. Not for those allergic to talk of God or war. 
             The workshop will be 100% worship, mostly programmed; see Mark 12:28-30.*
Lecture: 60%
Discussion: 40%
Experiential Activities: 0%
Worship/worship-sharing: 100% >>

*NOTE: Mark 12:28-30: 28 One of the teachers of the law came and heard them debating. Noticing that Jesus had given them a good answer, he asked him, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”
29 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’  

[Emphasis added.] I also explain that in these sessions we will be attempting to worship with our minds, which is why I describe it as 100% worship, mostly programmed.]

         It should be evident from this that the workshop is not intended for everyone. In my experience, a large segment of liberal Friends (by no means all of them “young”) gives a wide berth to “high-content,” intellectually serious explorations of their religion. Many are similarly allergic to mention of God, the Bible or conflict in “warlike” terms. 

         I don’t have much to offer these Friends. So the description is both truth in advertising, and a qualifier: if this isn’t your cup of tea, there are lots of other options. Call it elitist or exclusive or arrogant or whatever; but it’s not biased by generation, and there’s plenty of room for interchange and challenge. (Godwrestling, I hope.)  And those who have been at similar ones have mostly found the sessions both unique and highly satisfying.
Chuck Fager at work
Your humble servant at work

         But an important footnote: it’s sad that I had to struggle (that word again) long and hard to establish the legitimacy of this “high-content” approach within FGC: there is an anti-intellectualism in its corporate/spiritual culture that is very deeply entrenched (and deeply subversive, I believe, of our ability to meet the needs of serious YAFs among others). And if this style does not appeal to many, well, let it be. (Different strokes for different folks; I don’t like sushi.)

        So if << there's a real danger some my age will start to see you as part of the problem >>, all I can do is laugh and say, “Christ, I certainly HOPE so.” It will be a sign that there’s something in my “legacy” that’s worth deconstructing or improving upon. 

         Besides, if I’m the worst that YAFs have to overcome, you’ve got it much easier than some think.

Chuck

      

I Have Met God and His name Is Christian Lander

Friday, May 6th, 2011

I’m probably the last white guy in America to discover this. But this dude . . .

Christian Lander

Christian Lander, Prophet of God for White People of Today.

. . . who says he’s originally from Toronto has delivered the most revealing message about white people, especially that sub-sub-sub-tribe of WPs that are called Liberal Quakers, that I ever saw. I’m not worthy to loosen the strap of his Birkenstocks, but here are a few quick tributes.

A bit of context for the rest of the half dozen of us who, like me, didn’t get the memo til this week: “Stuff White People Like” started out in 2008 as a blog, which drew millions of hits, and led quickly to book deals. It was early recognized as the Scripture of Snark, one of the few kinds of holy writ universally acknowledged by white people.

Just a sample from the first book:
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“White people love diversity, but only as it relates to ethnic restaurants.”

There are 149 more similar entries in the book; I’d quote them all, but the publisher would probably sue me, so just a few more fair use snippets.

The second book, “Whiter Shades of Pale,” nails us regarding the current chief executive:

“Though technically only half-white, Barack Obama is America’s first truly white president. Jimmy Carter came close, but he expected people to make real sacrifices and white people aren’t really into that. No, Obama is the first white president for the following reasons: he went to law school, he attended an Ivy League school, he drives a hybrid, he planted an organic garden at the White House, and he has the one accessory that all white people long for: black children.”

He’s also invented a sidebar travel game, called “White travel Bingo. Here’s one sample board:

White Travel Bingo

The trick is to look for white people exhibiting the telltale characteristics while driving from one white people’s destination (e.g., a film festival) to another (the farmers market).

and why do I say this book is particularly relevant to my liberal Quaker clan?? Dig it:
Liberal Quakers-This Is For You

“White people will often say they are ’spiritual’ but not religious. This usually means that they will believe in any religion that doesn’t involve Jesus. . . .For the most part, white people prefer religions that produce artifacts and furniture that fit into their home or wardrobe. They are also particularly drawn to religions that do not require a lot of commitment or donations.”

“Awareness”

An interesting fact about white people is that they firmly believe all of the world’s problems can be solved through ‘awareness’–meaning the process of making other people aware of problems, magically causing someone else, like the government, to fix it. This belief allows them to feel that sweet self-satisfaction without actually having to solve anything or face any difficult challenges, because the only challenge of raising awareness is getting the attention of people who are currently unaware . . . .”

The Gospel According to YAFS: Are Friends “Tired”?? Plus: Fix It With “The Seven UPs”

Friday, May 6th, 2011

I’m going to take up the invitation offered by young Friend Paul Christiansen, in a comment to his article in the Western Friend, “Younger Blood, Older Eyes.”

Western Friend Cover

The article opens well:

Western Quakers seem tired to me.
Those of us on committees feel it most clearly, I think, especially people on Nominating like me: a sense of how important our Society’s work is, and a sense of the limited energy we have for it. There are fewer of us to carry on larger tasks; our strongest and wisest have been carrying us for a long time, and when they lay down their burdens, the work is not taken up again with such vigor or skill. Some have life left, but it seems that many feel stretched, weary. Not enough coffee and too many cups.

The decline of volunteerism in the U.S. is not a new topic. The pressures on the middle class, where it now takes two incomes to sustain a typical household, leaves many people plumb wore out, and more likely to surf or sit in front of the TV.
Friends meetings are no exception; Christiansen speaks of Nominating Committee difficulties with filling slots. Been there, done that, and have no easy solutions. The East is no better off than the West in this regard.

Christiansen invokes the mass movements of the Sixties, notes that there are still plenty of big issues facing us today, and wonders why there is no comparable groundswell today, at least among Friends. Why not? Because, he suspects,

. . . . we’re tired.

Maybe so. But all of us? From here, my response to the piece, which was touted on Facebook as a revealing look at “generational dynamics,” gets mixed. How many similar articles have I read that take one or a few persons’ experience (be they young or old) and then proceed to diagnose “Quakerism” at large, especially to conclude that it’s in dire straits?

Too many, and their insight quotient tends to be pretty small.

Does this piece escape that fate? Not entirely. “So, where are Quaker youth?” it asks — “There are a few of us, scattered thinly . . . ”
But are they really so few and so scattered?

In the Comments following the article, one YAF reports firsthand that in Multnomah Meeting, a few hours south of Seattle, there are lots of them; and then from Austin Meeting we hear that there are lots more, active and vocal. (Austin Texas is still “in the West” as far as I’m concerned.)

This data doesn’t fit with the opening premise, and personally I think the larger answer to “where are the Quaker youth?” is mixed: some meetings have a good number of active YAFS, some don’t. And in some places there are thriving inter-meeting networks; other places, it’s sparse. Does that amount to a crisis? Count me not convinced.

Christiansen acknowledges that some YAFs from smaller meetings seek out larger gatherings, such as Yearly Meetings, where they find enough of their peers to have the sustaining community experience. Such “oases” of community have long been of great value to many younger Friends (and, hello — lots of us older ones too) who are seeking to live in a somehow Quakerly way amid a largely hostile environment. My experience is that this “oasis” plan can be a viable survival strategy; at least, I’ve been following it for most of forty years. In this connection he mentions an annual New Years gathering:

. . . which has alternated between Oregon and California for decades. It is entirely run by young people, which adds a vital sense of ownership that’s quite attractive to youth who feel unwelcome elsewhere in the Society

[Memo to the Western Friend: Wouldn’t it be much more useful to take a closer look at the New Years Gathering? How has it managed to survive the coming and going of several generations of YAFs through its doors, who then moved on into their post-YAF lives?

Indeed, my partner, the fair Wendy, has very fond memories of these same New Years events from back in -- well, let's just say Back In The Day before Christiansen's generation was even in diapers. Finding out what has made this event viable for so long, and whether any of its secrets might be portable -- now THAT would be a signal contribution to the YAF survival and retention efforts in many places.]

Mention of the New Year’s gathering moves Christiansen to the nub of the dissident YAFs’ complaint:

[The New Years event] adds a vital sense of ownership that’s quite attractive to youth who feel unwelcome elsewhere in the Society.
Mark that: there is a feeling common among Quakers under thirty, or even forty, that Friends over forty have been in charge so long that there’s no way for us young people to contribute. When my fellow youth attend their home meetings, they are usually still thought of as children; when they go elsewhere they are outsiders. It is not intentional exclusion, but long memories and unspoken traditions shut people out— also true among younger Friends, I admit. Quakerism, a Friend said, is “Like a game of Mao,” Mao being a game in which the rules are never explained, and new players learn the rules when they’re punished for breaking them. It is a game designed to frustrate; the Society of Friends can be similarly hostile.

The “Mao game” part is real enough, yet it is not only a generational issue: I’ve seen plenty of older new attenders scratching their heads and wondering, “What did I do wrong??” This point is reinforced by a comment on the article from a recent attender who’s still struggling to figure it out: he’s 50-something.

As for the “no way to contribute” and YAFs being “shut out” by hidebound elders, this may be a real problem, but are you aware that it’s not a new one? How many have read about Philadelphia Yearly Meeting in its “classic” years of dominance over colonial Pennsylvania — when YM Clerks served for decades, and then passed the post on to their favored sons?

Or consider this sardonic cartoon from 1828, which showed how the reigning PYM Clerk so favored the insiders and “shut out” the mass of members that the resulting resentments exploded in the Great Separation:

A new problem? Friends being excluded, shut out, and treated with hostility, circa 1828.

This image deserves some thoughtful reflection: if issues of being closed and shutting out non-favored members are recurrent, or even abiding Quaker problems, maybe there is experience and insight to be gained from former generations. Today’s young inquirers may have to dig it out themselves, but maybe they don’t have to re-invent it.

Christiansen shows some sensitivity to this. In a comment on the piece, he says,

The challenge as I see it, however, is to work *with* the “old guard” and not against it. . . . It’s worth remembering that while Quakerism may be opaque to younger eyes, youth culture can be similarly opaque to the generations that came before. Wiser, I think, to have the conversation, and trust that the leading of the Spirit will make itself known.

What? Youth culture opaque?? He must be kidding. I’m hip; I think the Beatles are just fine. (But that stuff called “hip-hop”? Just a fad. It’ll be gone by year’s end. Also, I know perfectly well that “LOL” means “Living On Love.” Totally.)

So how do we “work *with*” various generations? Honestly, I’m not sure that’s the key question.

Yes, there are generational cohorts, with somewhat distinctive outlooks and experience. Yet I’m persuaded there’s much more going on, and seeing the problems of Quakerism through a generational lense misses a lot of important points, which are not rooted in an age grouping; otherwise, why haven’t they gone away as I’ve grown older?

Instead, I want to suggest that dealing with generational (and most other) difficulties in the Religious Society of Friends today calls for learning and applying some specific skills, or what might also be called virtues. Pardon the clunky mnemonic, but I call them “The Seven Ups”.

Yep. The seven ways to fix Quakerism, whether you’re young or not. They are:

Show Up.
Read Up.
Speak up.
Ante up.
Smarten Up.
Toughen Up. And
Don’t Hurry Up.
Permit me a brief explanation:

Show Up: Quakerism belongs to those, of whatever age, who stay around, attend the meetings, and do the grunt work. If The Society doesn’t bring Light for you, find another path. But if it does, don’t expect to mail it in and get anywhere beyond the fringes. There’s a reason liberal Quakers generally don’t believe in hell: because we have committee meetings instead. (What? Did you think I like them any better after forty years worth?)

Read Up: I grow weary of those, young or old, who complain that nothing about Quakerism is explained. Sure, many of us elders may be too diffident about speaking of it; in fact, he’s quite right about that — but before you leave in a snit, have you looked over the meetinghouse library? Many Friends over many years have done their best to distill the explanations into writings long and short, old and new, enough to fill many shelves. (Your Meeting lacks a library? No excuse: lots of it is now online.) Make use of them.

This is a key point for me. Quakerism may be young among the world’s religions, but it has still produced a rich deposit of faith and experience.

So if Talmudic scholars pursue their studies for decades, and Quranic jurists do likewise; if a Jesuit priest invests a decade learning his craft, and my friend Sarah who is becoming a nun has spent six years in fulltime study and preparation — please, why should anyone expect understanding Quakerism to involve no more than a couple of pamphlets, or an hour or two in group discussion?

Frankly, such insinuations are unbecoming. No, that’s not plain enough: they’re demeaning.

But are we all supposed to become rabbis? Well, as an occupation, no. But Quakerism abolished the rabbinate, remember? And the bishops and the priests and the mullahs too. So who does that leave ultimately responsible for my “faith seeking understanding”? It’s me, that’s who. And where, Friend, does the responsibility lie for yours?

And having learned something, then Speak Up. Christiansen cops to this in a Comment on the article, when asked for suggestions about how to open doors for YAFs.

My next suggestion for young people of all ages is to speak out, respectfully but firmly. Conversation between equals is the rock that we have to build on.

Young people of all ages; I’ll drink to that (root beer, of course, which was popularized by a Quaker). Effective speaking up is greatly enhanced when the speaker has done some serious reading and is beginning to know what they’re talking about.

And as this happens, many will be surprised to discover that much of the over-forty reluctance to speak about Quakerism is based on a failure to do likewise. Yes, all too many of my generation of American Quakers don’t talk about it because we don’t know diddly about Quaker history or thought, beyond a couple of pamphlets and whatever certain social action groups say it is. This fog of ignorance, dubbed “the Age of Amnesia” by one observer, is among our least attractive features, and quite frankly deserves no deference because it is largely based on laziness and timidity.

Yet a bit of learning can be dangerous, especially if it obscures what is the equally or even more important mandate to

Ante Up. I didn’t realize this until it happened, but I ceased being a “Young Adult Friend” and turned into an “Adult Friend,” not on my 35th birthday, but on the day I sat down, after many years of attending and membership, pulled out my check book, made a donation to my Meeting, and then followed it up each month thereafter.

That was when I began to “carry my weight,” and before long, to realize I was “gaining” what those older Friends called “weight.”

How did it happen? The answer was a bit unsettling, but no less true for that: I was now concretely invested in the meeting.

Yes, I know we older Friends rattle on endlessly about how money should not be the measure of anyone’s value to a Meeting, or inhibit participation therein. And mostly, we mean it.

Mostly.

But there’s another side to the coin: Quakerism, like just about every other institution, has a material base: bills have to be paid. Meetinghouses require lights, heat, maintenance, sometimes costly. Scholarships to camp or yearly meeting don’t fall from the sky. Religious Education materials are not all given away free. The joyous community of yearly meeting or whatever require groceries, rent, insurance and fees. And if there are staff, salaries don’t magically appear.

This is probably the most closely guarded of older Friends’ secrets, and I may get in trouble for spilling it, but what the hell? – money counts. Our only excuse for concealing this fact, and it’s a lame one, is that we didn’t invent it: such doubletalking hypocrisy about money is practically ingrained in the Quaker DNA; it would take another long post even to begin to explore why.

Money

The Latest from Quaker Wikileaks: Money Matters!

So if you’re a YAF and you don’t feel taken seriously in your meeting, consider this advice, hidden away under the heading “Stock” in the oldest printed Discipline: “A stock [i.e., treasury] having been generally kept, and by experience found useful, for the necessary occasions of the society, it is agreed, that the same be occasionally renewed by a collection from each quarter . . .” Or this, from Query 4 of the North Carolina Yearly Meeting (Conservative) Discipline: “4. Do we assume our rightful share in the expenses of our Meeting?”

Eventually I came to see that this was not simply a worldly question, but also a spiritual one; for “where your treasure is, there will your heart be also,” is a true statement, even if it is in the Bible (Matthew 6:21).

So far, so good. Still, I admit there will be times and places where none of these habits will be enough. There are meetings and organizations with entrenched establishments which will take your money, let you do the grunt work, and still keep you and others at arm’s length, patronized and on the back benches. (Yet this too is not only a feature of advanced age; I realize it may not be so visible from your standpoint, though; us geezers look so much alike, after all.)

Christiansen writes of this:

When young Friends are welcomed to participate, we often wind up as the token young person on a committee. This can exhaust and deaden, for committees are not designed for action or vitality; Quaker tradition moves slowly. Tradition guides, but tradition grows comfortable, and change grows hard. When we young folks try to act, we’re told “We don’t do it that way,” and we’re never told why. Older Friends must talk with us about Quaker traditions and history, or we won’t learn them; only by trusting and supporting us in our ideas can we become part of the life of the meeting.

Older Friends need to talk, and do so plainly; absolutely right. But remember the cartoon from 1828? Sometimes those in charge refuse. So what then?

Well, in the early 1890s, after an evangelical autocracy had ruled (and stifled) London Yearly Meeting for decades, a band of young insurgents gathered and discovered that they were well and truly fed up, religiously as well as generationally. So they planned a coup. And to bring it off, they went underground. That is, they

Smartened Up.

What? You mean they schemed and connived?

Yes. if you believe such things do not and cannot happen among Quakers, Friend, it’s time thee woke up and smelt the fair trade organic shade-grown roast arabica.

In this particular case, which has been well-documented, they proposed to hold a “Home Missions” conference, on matters of “current concern” — which were left deliberately quite vague and innocuous-sounding, and obtained a pat-on-the-head green light from the dozing elders. Then they stacked the program committee with their own kind and generation, and quietly, so quietly, put together a program which, in 1895, started a revolution. The old farts didn’t discover what the whippersnappers were up to til the conference was actually underway; and then, by golly, it was too late. Freaking brilliant.

J. Bevan Braithwaite

The Elder Establishment personified: J. Bevan Braithwaite, dominating minister in London YM for decades; he had no clue til it was too late.

Many other examples could be offered; but I encourage you to look them up yourselves.

So sometimes, in dealing with us elders, you’ll find that you may have to wait for a Quaker funeral or two before taking your rightful places among the in-crowd. But often enough, if you get together and Smarten Up, this process can be speeded up.

Finally, the time may come when passive aggression doesn’t cut it. Now and then you may have to actually push your way into the charmed circle, and even engage in open conflict. Yes: the zero-sum game does get played among Friends, more than we care to admit. [At this point, you may insert your favorite platitudinal quotes about how conflict is good and avoiding it is bad, etc., etc. Don't worry; we will not mention them again.] In Ecclesiastes (the Bible again), we are told there is a time for everything, including “war.” That applies to Friends too, so when that time comes, Toughen Up, do what has to be done, and thank God for the peace testimony.

In a usually milder form, this last injunction has a special applicability to younger Friends: The Society of Friends is not, as you are discovering, always a warm fuzzy, welcoming, ever-safe, nurturing and generous place. (What human institution is?) Sometimes, if you want in, you’ll have to Toughen Up and push your way in; politely, if at all possible. Or with an elbow here and there if need be.

And don’t be put off by this penultimate of my lugubrious Seven Ups. It doesn’t come into play that often. Usually, if you’re among those who Show Up and Ante Up, the experience is more like what happened to me in the Meeting I attended from the late 70s to the early 90s.

There was definitely an “entrenched establishment” of elders there when I arrived. I don’t say they were “oppressive,” but there they were, and why not? They had created this meeting, found the meetinghouse, raised money to renovate it, and kept it going, so I could come and fumble along and find my way.

But then one First Day — it was literally like this — I looked around the meeting room at the scattering of what I had been thinking of as “Younger Friends” (i.e., like me), and had a shocking double realization:

First, that almost all the Establishment Elder Friends were now GONE (death, retirement, the usual); and

Second, that OMG! — it was now OUR TURN, including MY turn, to see if we could continue what they had started. One by one, fairly quickly, we stepped into all the big slots: Clerk, Treasurer, etc.

It wasn’t a power struggle. Quite the opposite: it was more as if someone next to me had dropped a precious vase, and it was up to me (or someone like me) to catch it before it smashed on the floor.

Nobody announced this, or asked if we were ready, or now felt included. It’s just what happens when the calendar flips over enough times. Still, somehow I felt surprised, as if I’d been riding on an escalator, lost in a daydream, then -bump- there I was at the top, or rather, the next level. (A third realization came later: I wasn’t a “Younger Friend” anymore.)

And when the “bump” comes for today’s YAFs, I hope they’re not all “tired” already, as Christiansen suggests.

In his quick list of suggestions for dealing with YAF discontent, his article concludes with something very striking:

Lastly — and I admit this is really tenuous at the moment, but I think it’s really going to be the key — we need something to really believe in. Call it a cause. What that cause may be… well, that we need to work out. But I suspect we need something to act on, a rallying cry.

I found that both very interesting, and a bit troubling. Interesting because it might — maybe — be a goad to some serious seeking, which is all to the good.

But troubling, because I’ve heard it before, and it left me scratching my graying head. There’s still lots of wars, our constitution has been shredded, the planet is crashing, etc., etc., and yet somebody can’t find a cause? What’s up with that?

Except here again, I’m not persuaded: some YAFs I’m acquainted with do have causes or leadings they’re dedicated to and developing; so it doesn’t apply to all. Another aspect is that, for those of us who are old and have been working for “causes” and leadings for awhile, it raises a challenging question: how does that kind of involvement get transmitted to the next generation? Can it be?

Is it a matter of inviting YAFs to more committee meetings? (Somehow I doubt it; but go anyway.) Where and how do people get “inspired”? I could tell you my story about that, but part of it is that my story isn’t necessarily The Way To Do It.

But maybe one quick snippet: I didn’t really have a clue as to my “cause” or “leading” (vocation was my term) until my mid-thirties; and then it took another decade-plus to feel as if I was getting on track with it; we’re talking late forties here. Yeah, I think I was pretty dense. And along the way I stressed about it a lot. But I can look back and see that God was working on this denseness. (Still is, one hopes.)

So if this experience has anything to offer it is the charge to keep seeking and threshing, but Don’t Hurry Up, that is, don’t be surprised if it takes awhile; because the Spirit “is like the wind, it blows where it wants to, and you hear the sound of it, but you don’t know where it comes from or where it’s going. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.” (Yeah, another Bible quote: John 3:8)

So Christiansen is right: that one needs some working out.

Another thing: if he was looking for ONE cause that everybody would get behind, here’s one old Quaker ready to say of that: BEWARE. The world is complex; God is mysterious; real problems are many, and so are true leadings. In my time, the people who wanted us all to line up behind their Cause were generally best avoided.

Well, I’ve tried to follow Paul Christiansen’s advice to “young people of all ages . . . to speak out, respectfully but firmly” here. And I’ll close by quoting one of the YAF comments on his article, which I think does the same:

Quakers have a valuable, unique, and vital message and approach badly needed in this world and if the “old guard” aren’t interested in working with young friends it will be their loss. I don’t plan on going anywhere (unitarianism, ugh) and I have the wherewithall to stand in my meeting and demand change. I hope other adult young friends realize the power they have in their youth and energy.

Okay, so that was from my daughter Guli, in whom I am well-pleased; so I’m hardly unbiased here. But I think she kicked it.

When Wonks Attack: Philadelphia YM Budget Saga, Cont..

Friday, April 22nd, 2011

Well, friends, one report I read of the April 9 PYM Interim Meeting session o n the new budget, which cuts 25% of the staff to close a million-dollar deficit, was that all was sweetness and light and serene acceptance.

More recent reports give a different view. “Left reeling in shock,” is another reaction.
No doubt individual responses varied. But two items have surfaced to suggest that the waters are troubled.
One is a memo from General Secretary Arthur Larrabee, announcing that he is taking a voluntary 5% salary cut, effective immediately. (Text below.)

The other is a several-page memo of searching, detailed questions, addressed to the Finance Committee, about the proposed budget. The memo is unsigned, butI am advised that the author is a former staff person who knows the budget and the money stuff intimately; a wonk, as it were.

<< Subj: Volunteering A Salary Cut
 
PYM Staff
Colleagues-
Over the period of time we have been wrestling with PYM’s FY 2012 budget, I have given a lot of thought to what I might do, personally, in response to the situation. This morning I had a helpful conversation with a friend; by this afternoon my thinking had crystalized. 
In light of PYM’s current financial situation, I will be volunteering a 5% reduction in my salary, effective immediately. Tomorrow, I will ask the accounting office to implement this request.
I volunteer to do this wanting to signal my sense that we’re all in this together, me included, and this feels like something I can do. It has a spiritual quality for me, one
of reaching out to be in relationship with the situation, with staff and with the Yearly Meeting.
I am not asking or expecting anyone else to volunteer a salary cut. If such a request were to be made, it would be for the Personnel Services Group to discern. 
Thanks for being colleagues with me in a not easy time.
Blessings.
Arthur
Quakerism: Simple Faith, Radical Witness
Arthur M. Larrabee >>

The other, perhaps more portentous, is an anonymous memo with a long list of searching, detailed questions about the proposed budget and the supporting information presented with it at the April 9 session.

I am advised that the author of these queries is a former longtime staff person who knows the numbers and the finances inside and out; a wonk, in common parlance. I’m unable to verify that claim,but the document gives that impression.

It’s unclear how widely the queries have circulated, so perhaps they could use a boost. Hence we will insert them below, in full.

If you, dear Reader, are far from Philadelphia, much of this may seem like so much Greek. But on the other hand, it offers a rare glimpse to outsiders of the wheels turning in that behemoth of Quaker bodies.

Here is the Query Memo:

<< Questions for Financial Stewardship
 
General Questions
1-      There are three newly created positions in the proposed budget: Director of Meeting Relations, Director of Communications, and Volunteer Coordinator.  The positions that are being removed or reduced include: Young Friends Coordinator, Young Adult Friends Coordinator; Eco-Justice Coordinator; Interpretation and Volunteer Coordinator; Director of Burlington Conference Center.  It seems that those positions being eliminated are direct service positions and the newly created positions are administrative.  Is this change in focus a decision for the General Secretary or a decision that should come before Yearly Meeting?   What is the total salary difference between the new positions and the direct service positions being eliminated?
 
2-      According to the slides, the Yearly Meeting has seen deficits in the General Fund for the last four years.  During that time, how much money has been spent by the Yearly Meeting on renovations at Friends Center ; renovations at Arch Street; furniture and furnishings at Friends Center, Arch Street and Burlington?
a.      How much has the Yearly Meeting spent on renovations at Friends Center that are not part of the shared cost?  How much of this was due to design changes?
b.      How much did the Yearly Meeting spend over the past four years on renovating the Library that is now being closed?
 
3-      At Interim Meeting, it was said that the projected deficit for FY 2011 is three times the anticipated deficit.  When was this mounting deficit noticed?  If this deficit is three times the budgeted amount, why have new employees been hired?  Why weren’t the renovations at Arch Street postponed?  Why has new furniture been purchased?   Why haven’t expenses been reduced to match income received?
 
4-      Where is the Capital Reserve money in this budget? How much has been used since 2010 and for what purposes in which buildings?  How much is budgeted to be used in each building in the proposed budget?  
 
Salary and Benefit Questions
1-      From 2005 to the amount in the proposed budget for 2012, what percentage increase has occurred in the salary of the General Secretary?  What is the dollar amount of this increase?
 
2-      From 2005 to the amount in the proposed budget for 2012 what percentage increase has occurred in the salary for the lowest paid staff person at the Yearly Meeting? What is the dollar amount of this increase?
3-      In 2011, what was the percentage difference between the lowest paid staff person and the highest paid staff person?
 
4-      In 2005, how many employees were paid under $50,000?  How many were paid between $50,000 and $75,000?  How many were paid over $75,000? For part-time staff calculate their full time salary and then indicate how many are part-time in each range.
 
5-      In 2011, how many employees are paid under $50,000?  How many are paid $50,000-$75,000?  How many are paid over $75,000?  For part-time staff calculate their full time salary and then indicate how many are part-time in each range.
 
6-      How much severance has been paid to laid off employees since 2007? How much was paid from 2003 – 2006?
 
7-      How much severance will be paid to laid off employees in this proposed budget?
 
8-      Indicate the number of staff at each of the following levels in 2005 and 2011
 
 
2005
2011
Admin. Assist/Maint
 
 
Program staff/accountants
 
 
Coordinators
 
 
Directors/Assoc Sec/Gen Sec
 
 
 
9-      Since 2007, how many employees have left the Yearly Meeting and how many staff have been hired?  
 
10-  Is it not true that the payments to the pension system are based on the salaries paid?  If that is true and salary levels have increased greater than the rates of inflation since 2005, then wouldn’t the pension payments be increasing higher than the Buy prednisolone online rate of inflation?  If salary levels were contained would that not lower the pension payments?
 
11-  If PYM did not have a defined benefit retirement plan, would it have (like most employers) a defined contribution retirement plan?  Wouldn’t it be a fairer comparison to compare the cost of the pension plan with the cost of a defined contribution plan? If the Yearly Meeting had a defined contribution retirement plan of up to 5% of salary what would have been the cost of that plan over the past ten years?
 
12-  In analyzing the cost of the pension plan, isn’t it fairer to average the last 20 years of pension contribution which would include the years in which no contribution was made and then compare that to a defined contribution plan over the same 20 years?
 
13-  It would be helpful to know the range of payments to PYM pensioners.  Is the problem that the pension plan is overly generous to the recipients or could it be that the fund’s management needs reviewing?
 
14-  It was mentioned during the presentation that cost of living increases in the pension payments have caused increasing costs to PYM.  When was the last cost of living increase provided to PYM pensioners?  What date was the cost of living increase before the last increase?
 
Expense Questions
1-      On the page showing the Standing Committee income and expenses, under  Interim,
 
1.      What programs is Interim supporting with its $444,150 of General Fund money?
 
2.      Which staff are included under the Interim Staff salary line of $330,050?
 
3.      When staff is being reduced by 25% why is Interim giving grants to others of $38,500?
 
 
2-      On the page showing the Standing Committee income and expenses, under the Education
Standing Committee,
1.      The Grants to Others is $330,221 which seems to include all but $60,000 from the prior year net assets, designated and restricted fund income.  Has the Education Standing Committee considered using the $60,000 from the restricted funds to fund some of the Young Adult Friends position and/or the Young Friends Position? Where is this money in the proposed budget? What does it fund?
 
2.      Does the $83,570 in event income reflect income from the Young Friends events?  Wouldn’t the elimination of the staff person for Young Friends reduce the expected income from events? Has it been reduced since the staff person for the Young Friends is being eliminated?  
 
3.      Since the Library is closing, has the Education Standing Committee considered how the Francis Ferris income is going to be used in 2012?
3-      On the page showing the Standing Committee income and expenses, under  General Services,
 
1.      There is $5,000 in depreciation.  This used to represent a transfer from the Burlington Conference Center to the Capital Reserve.  If the Burlington Conference Center is closed, why would this transfer be in the budget?
 
2.      There is $26,000 in repairs and maintenance and $16,000 in utilities.  If this is for the Burlington Conference Center, utilities might need to be paid but why would $26,000 be needed for maintenance for a closed building? If it is not for the Burlington Conference Center, then what is it for?
 
3.      Under this budget, the Burlington Conference Center will be closed.  Has the restricted fund income which reverts to the Burlington Quarter when this happens been removed from the restricted fund income?
 
4.      What is included in Contracted Services under General Services?
 
4-      On the page showing the Standing Committee income and expenses, under  Peace and Concerns Standing Committee,
 
1.      Where is the unspent income from the Warren Fund?
 
2.      Where is the restricted fund “Peace Committee Fund”?
 
3.      There is $29,854 in restricted fund income and $21,150 in grants to others.  Did Peace and Concerns Standing Committee minute the use of the $8,000 not being given to grants to others?  If not, could they not minute that money be used along with the Fund for Suffering , Peace Committee Funds and unspent Warren funds to maintain the War Tax Resistance support by the Yearly Meeting until Yearly Meeting could meet in session to review that position?
 
4.      Could Peace and Concerns Standing Committee decide to use some of the $10,000 budgeted for events to continue support of the war tax resistance stance of the Yearly Meeting?
 
5-      On the page showing the Standing Committee income and expenses, under  Support and Outreach,
 
1.      Where are the funds coming from for grants to others?  There is only $50,542 total when the designated fund income, restricted fund income and prior year net assets are added together.  Is the additional $4,000 coming from the General Fund?
 
2.      Is the $35,150 in copying and printing under Support and Outreach for Quarterly Newsletters?  If so, should this be reduced if the Quarter Coordinators are reduced?
 
3.      Why is the “rent” which is the cost of housing staff at Friends Center  $48,000 when none of the Quarter Coordinators are housed at Friends Center? How many staff does this $48,000 represent?
 
6-      On the page showing the Standing Committee income and expenses, under  Worship and Care,
 
1.      There is $49,050 in prior year net assets and $670,464 in restricted fund income which seems to be covering the $634,511 in grants to others.  What is the additional $80,000 being used for?
 
2.      There is $176,000 budgeted for contracted services.  Are any of the independent contractors in this budget line expected to receive more than $20,000 during the year?  
 
7-      On the page showing the Standing Committee income and expenses, under  Arch Street,
 
1.      If the Interpretation position is being eliminated, shouldn’t the gifts of support also be reduced?
 
2.      If the Director of Arch Street has to be both the Director and the Interpreter, shouldn’t the fee income be reduced?
 
3.      What event is being planned for Arch Street for $13,700 with reduced staffing?
 
4.      Why is Interim Meeting receiving $20,000 in travel for its employees?  Where are those employees going?
 
8-      “Rent”, as was described during Interim Meeting, is based on the square footage used by PYM at Friends Center.  In 2005, what was the square footage occupied by PYM?  In 2011, what was the square footage for PYM?  Isn’t it true that the current General Secretary increased the square footage of PYM during the renovations and took over the space initially allocated to Friends Fiduciary causing them to leave Friends Center?  Shouldn’t reducing the square footage reduce the “rent” at Friends Center?  Didn’t AFSC reduce its square footage at Friends Center to reduce its costs?
 
9-      On the page that compares the budget to prior year costs,
1.      Contracted Services is $445,430 yet on the Standing Committee page contracted services is $405,430.
                                                              i.      Why would these numbers be different?
                                                            ii.      Are there individuals receiving more than $20,000 a year as independent contractors?  If so, would it make more sense to reduce this expense instead of laying off staff?
 
2.      Computer and Office Support is $36,400 yet on the Standing Committee page Office Supplies are $12,700; Office Support is $15,200 and Computer Support is $48,500. Shouldn’t these numbers be the same on both pages?
 
3.      Employee travel and training is increased by almost $10,000 or 17% to $65,200.  Since the notes to the budget indicate that professional training for employees has been eliminated, this increase would indicate even greater travel expenses than 17%.  Is this justifiable when staff is being decreased by 25%?
 
4.      Under Miscellaneous there is a budgeted amount of $4,950 and on the Standing Committee page this amount is for Memberships and subscriptions ($2,000 of this is for Interim Meeting – perhaps this could be reviewed when 25% of the staff is being laid off? )
 
Income Questions
1.      On the Standing Committee page, the total for designated fund income is $113,315 whereas on the page that compares the budget with prior year income the designated fund income is $547,915.  Is this difference because some designated fund income is included in the General Fund income on the Standing Committee page?  If so, could this amount be broken out on the General Fund income estimates page?
 
2.      On the page with the Standing Committee budgets, there is a total of $8,000 in Departmental Transfers but on the page that compares the budget with prior years the transfers are $3,659.  Why are these two numbers different?
 
3.      If one adds up the fee income on the Standing Committee page, the total is $479,120 compared to $722,720 on the page that compares the budget with prior years.  If one adds the administrative fee of $261,000 which is part of the General Fund income on the Standing Committee page to the $479,120, the total fee income is $740,120 which does not equal the $722,720 on the page that compares the budget with prior years.  Why?  What accounts for the difference?
 
4.      On the Standing Committee page, the total for restricted fund income is $964,697 yet on the page that compares the budget with prior years the total for restricted fund income is $979,697. Is there restricted fund income being used for the General Fund or is this the restricted bequest indicated on the Standing Committee page?  
 
 
5.      On the page that compares the budget with prior years the actual investment income in 2010 was $378,228, the budgeted amount for 2012 is $285,000 a decrease of $93,228 or 25%.  Yet the difference between the budgeted amount for the designated fund income in 2012 and the actual in 2010 is a decrease of 6% or $33,489 and the difference between the budgeted amounts for the restricted fund income from the actual in 2010 is 7% or $76,695.  Why are the funds included in investment income decreasing at a greater rate than the designated or restricted funds?  Aren’t the majority of all of these funds held at Friends Fiduciary?  Is this difference in income due to the spending of principle?  If so, was this spending authorized by Yearly Meeting in session? Could the amounts and names of the funds whose corpus has been eliminated be provided?
 
6.      Event and Service fees on the page that compares the budget with prior years have been reduced by 14% from the actual amount received in 2010.  What causes this reduction? Is it a reduction in event fees or service fees?
 
7.      In the FY 2012 budget, there is a restricted bequest of $15,000 under Worship and Care. Is this a restricted bequest from someone who has already passed away or from someone who is expected to pass away?  Is it included in income because the Yearly Meeting expects to receive it in 2012?  What will happen if it does not come to the Yearly Meeting in 2012?
 
Prior Year Net Assets
1-      At Interim Meeting, we were told that the amount of prior year income for each of the Standing Committees shown in the FY 2012 budget documents not include income from FY 2011; that the amounts listed were the unspent income from FY 2010.  If this is true, then as of 6/30/2010, the Standing Committee’s unspent restricted funds were:
a.      Education SC - $164,147
b.      General Services - $50,000
c.       Peace & Concerns – 0
d.      Support & Outreach - $30,000
e.      Worship and Care - $49,050
f.        Arch Street – 0
g.      Interim Meeting- $10,000
 
2-      If one compares the net assets carried forward for each of these Standing Committees on 6/30/2010, are these numbers the same as the amounts in the budget?  
 
a.      For ESC, what does the $164,147 include?  Which funds are included? Does it include Jeanes, Partenheimer, Townsend, Sergei Thomas and Haley Yarmark, all the tuition aid funds, the teacher’s retirement fund? How much from each fund?
 
b.      For General Services does the $50,000 include unspent funds from the Burlington Conference Center; Pemberton; Charleston; Meeting House Trust funds?  Does it include unspent Capital Reserve funds budgeted for Burlington? If so, how much from each?
 
c.       For Peace and Concerns, does $0 include Warren, Fairhill Friends Ministry, Peace Committee Funds, International Outreach and the Indian Committee?  
 
d.      For Support and Outreach does $30,000 include all of the Willits money that is carried forward?
 
e.      For Worship and Care, does the $49,050 include School of the Spirit funds, Aging Granting Group funds, Greenleaf funds, Natalie Clifford Barney?  If so, how much from each of those funds?
 
f.        For Arch Street, does $0 include unspent but budgeted capital reserve funds?
 
3-      If the budgeted amounts in Prior Year Net Assets do not equal the net assets carried forward for these funds as of 6/30/2010 and they do not represent estimates of what will be carried forward into FY 2012, where do these numbers come from? >>
 

Back To Class: Friends, Our Schools, And The Shock of Recognition

Wednesday, April 13th, 2011

Settle in, guys and gals; this one is a biggie. But worth it.

In a couple of earlier posts– here and also here — many months ago, I mentioned discussions of class as a factor that complicated self-understanding and community-building among Friends today, and promised to return to them at some point.

This is one of those points, precipitated by an article in the New York Times last month, describing tensions between some Friends in New York City and an expensive private school, Friends Seminary, which adjoins and shares facilities with the Fifteenth Street Meeting in Manhattan. It seems there are New York Friends who say that ties with the school should be cut.
Friends seminary, Manhattan New York
Friends Seminary, New York City

The Times article notes that

“ . . . some church members are also pushing for the separation because they say the school is no longer really Quaker. Among other complaints, they say the school’s $32,870 tuition, selective admissions and private-school culture fly in the face of the signature Quaker credos of simplicity, openness and equality.

“There are a number of Quakers that are concerned, who believe that the school over time has become a rich kids’ school,” said Michael Schlegel, the leader of the trustees of the New York Quarterly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends, the city’s chief Quaker body.”

This is really old, old news, which has been repeated many times around American Quakerdom. One example: more than forty years ago, a weighty, active woman Friend in Massachusetts recounted to me how shocked she was when Cambridge Meeting, next door to Harvard, decided to help create the Cambridge Friends School (CFS) in 1958. (It has been open since 1961 – Pre-K tuition for 2011, $20,500.) Her sense of social equality, and commitment to public education, were so offended that she left the Meeting, started another one in a small distant suburb. Then as part of her witness, she ran for the local school board and served for several years, to help shape the town’s public education system. There were many other such stories in quiet circulation long before the New York Times noticed.

Yet the Quaker schools have their Quaker defenders. As a new member of Cambridge Meeting in the 1970s, I heard many glowing reports about the achievements of CFS, and have no reason now to doubt them. And as the Times noted,

“There are a number of Quakers that are concerned, who believe that the school over time has become a rich kids’ school,” said Michael Schlegel, the leader of the trustees of the New York Quarterly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends, the city’s chief Quaker body.

Some members of the meeting, as well as Bo Lauder, the school’s headmaster, say it is too simplistic in the 21st century to say cachet and Quakerness are mutually exclusive. And many argue that the school still adheres to the Quaker way.

“It’s baffling that people have opinions that don’t reflect the reality,” Mr. Lauder said. “We live the Quaker values every day in multiple ways.”

This view is echoed from Philadelphia:

Irene McHenry, the executive director of the Friends Council on Education, a national organization of schools, said Friends Seminary met the council’s criteria for being a Quaker school, which include worship; instruction or “testimonies” in Quaker values; and community service. Sidwell Friends meets the standard, too, she said. . . .
That is one reason some Quakers oppose separation. “If Quakers don’t appreciate all that’s going on in Friends schools,” Ms. McHenry said, “they have this precious form of outreach and they’re undervaluing it.”

Well, beyond the field of vision of the newspaper’s prying eyes, vigorous discussion of all this continues to bubble. And it is a part of this that I’m eager to share with readers here. It is re-posted from the Non-Theist Friends email list, and was written by a New York Friend, Dave Britton. Friend Britton discusses the issues more perceptively and trenchantly than any other commentator I have seen. He also seems to have shed the illusions of ignorance which afflict so many others who wax indignant about the issues. I don’t entirely agree with all his points below, but he makes them so well that I’ll save my quibbles for later. Britton brings a great deal of value to this discussion, but not the last word.

So Friend Britton, over to you – though I will put in an oar from time to time in your exposition:

150 years ago lots of American Quakers were fairly well-to-do. All the big Quaker names in banking, insurance, food, technology, etc. were joined by many smaller but successful entrepreneurs in shipping, farming, etc. It was a source of consternation with respect to slavery - could you morally be in the business of shipping and selling items that depended on slave labor? After the world wars, with the rise of big corporations Quakers lost any pre-eminence in the business world, and by now at least in the U.S. there are hardly any Friends you could call rich, and only a few that are reasonably well-off. Most are middle to lower-middle class and many are older and relatively poor.

The schools were started during the wealthy period, and originally catered to Friends, but over the years began to accept non-Friends to keep revenues up as enrollment went down. Eventually they evolved into fine upstanding members of the independent private school industry, where their signature branding as “Quaker” brings an aura of excellence tempered by being kinder and gentler and liberal, which many rich people like.

COMMENT (Putting in an Oar): The history of class tensions among Friends is much older than US Quaker schools. It can be traced back as far as the 1680s, when William Penn was both a leading Quaker and a bosom buddy of King James II.
King James II

James II, clad in what passed as plain dress for royals.

The monarch, it is useful to remind Americans, stood (and stands) at the pinnacle of the British class system. Many of James’s courtiers fumed at being left out in the cold while the monarch spent much hang time with his brown-clad, non-blue blood compadre.
William Penn
Penn, in what looked too much like royal threads to many Friends of the 1680s.

But more than courtiers were not amused; many Friends thought Penn was putting on airs and selling them out while schmoozing with His Majesty, who was widely unpopular. Why exactly James liked Penn so much is a fascinating story, but one for another time. In any event, James was kicked off the throne in 1688 in what was called (by the winners) “the Glorious Revolution,” whereupon Penn was obliged to take it on the lam for several years, to avoid charges of treason. That danger passed. The associated class tensions, though, became a lasting Quaker legacy.

Then there is the chorus of complaints about the British Quaker schools, which parallel those in the US, but precede them.

Thus it was quite predictable that the older Eastern Friends schools, some of which have associations with colonial founders, would become well-established in Eastern patrician culture. So much so that they earned their own separate section in that classic of upper class preening, The Official Preppy Handbook, published in 1980. Billed as a “parody,” the book’s underlying accuracy has made it equally useful as a guide for upward strivers, especially women, as is frankly admitted in reviews at Amazon.com.
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The “Parody” that was a dead-serious guide for social advancement.

(For a genuine parody of Eastern Old Money mores, albeit likewise based on sound knowledge of the milieu down to the Nantucket Red pants, watch this YouTube video of a preppy “rap,” one of the all-time top viral videos, “Tea Par-tay”.)

In the Handbook, Friends Schools are identified as “The Organic Preppies,” a subspecies of the prep genus distinguished for their dietary peculiarities, devotion to the latest good causes (see Public Radio, National), and a penchant for unconvincing professions of guilt over their “privilege.”

Given this long history, the one real surprise in the recurrent internecine Quaker struggles over such schools is the surprising ignorance thereof evinced by succeeding waves of convinced Friends, who are shocked, shocked to discover that Quakers could ever have been party to an actual class system, never mind that some of these connections could have survived into the present. The underlying notion, that becoming a Quaker somehow brings one into a magic circle emancipated from actual social history, is one of the least appealing features of present-day liberal sensibility.

Nevertheless, as Dave Britton elaborates, even a familiarity with the history doesn’t banish all the questions and dilemmas. Though as he also shows, it helps in crafting a useful response:

Britton:

So, should contemporary American Friends be supporting the operation of elite private schools in the face of so much deprivation and injustice in the public school system? Many of us think not, myself among them. I was an initiator a few years ago of much of the critique of the two Friends schools under the care of New York Quarterly Meeting, and I have gotten both a lot of horror and a lot of behind the scenes encouragement over the years. We sent our daughter Liberty to Friends Seminary during middle school (jr. high - grades 6-8) and she was greatly relieved to get out for high school. Her attitude was, it isn’t really Quakerly at all, it’s just a misleading veneer, and I’m tired of going to school with snobby rich kids.

The real issue in the New York Quarter is the money involved.

Here’s Another Oar: (Ah, the money. Again, the Preppy Handbook had it right: this is always at the center, even as the true Prep learns starting in the crib how to conceal that fact from outsiders; the Friends schools are one of the seams in this carefully-constructed camouflage, where it peeps out from between the stitches.)

When Brooklyn Friends School split off into a separate corporation, the Quarter (acting while I was away at Yearly Meeting and unable to stand in the way) gave the new school corporation the $12 million worth of real estate that it had been using. The Quarter owned and operated the school, so it owned the property, using tuition to pay the mortgage (what little there was) and the capital upkeep expenses, but the proponents of the school (a handful of well off upper middle class Friends who identify with the well off parents the school serves) argued the property “belonged to the school” because tuition revenues were paying the upkeep. As if the tenants could claim ownership of an apartment because the landlord uses their rent for upkeep… Still, Friends’ fear of conflict led them to avoid a fight and just hand over the property. I was aghast - what we could have done with that $12 million besides subsidizing the wealthy families who enroll their kids!

An Oar to the Side of the Head: A twelve million dollar giveaway. Sometimes the liberal Quaker fear of open conflict gets expensive.

Friends Seminary is not such a cut and dried argument, since the school shares a lot of its space with the operations of the Quarter, other rental property and administrative space as well as the Meetinghouse itself that the school uses as an auditorium. Since the Brooklyn school was so contentious to resolve, Friends want to avoid similar contention by figuring out how to handle the real estate issues for Friends Seminary before the matter comes to a corporate split. I was a proponent of not separating the school, but rather reforming it to be more Quakerly and to have more Friends on the staff and enrolled. But I lost that struggle and the separation seems inevitable, as the school continues to be endorsed by the Friends Council on Education, [whose director] was quoted in the article as claiming that Friends schools are great outreach (what baloney, will the Obamas consider becoming Friends now their girls are at Sidwell?).

The most likely outcome is that the Quarter will get an income stream from the separated school, which we can use for socially conscious purposes. The amount of that income is what will be hotly debated, with the proponents of the status quo arguing to keep it minimal, while I and others argue to keep it at market rates (about $1 million a year).
What’s going on is this:

For many years, dating back to the 1990’s at least, Friends in the Quarter experienced occasional incidents that caused them great pain in their interactions with Friends Seminary, e.g. Quaker kids being refused admission without recourse or explanation, or disturbing situations handled in unFriendly ways. These were always dealt with in hush-hush fashion and anyone who made reference to them was told they were just isolated instances. Of course over time what the lawyers call a “pattern of practice” could be clearly seen.

Being an unreformed community organizer I instigated an open discussion of these issues, which many Friends found extremely uncomfortable, but which lanced the boil of distress and led to the beginnings of a discussion about how to make the school more Quakerly and get more Quakers into the school (students, parents, faculty and administration), and importantly it overcame the stigma of shame and hurt that came from community denial of real mistreatment.

However, the school community vigorously resisted and continues to resist any encroachment into its structure, functions or operations. The dominant culture of the school is generated and supported by wealthy parents, most of whom are liberal nice folks, but who really don’t want any annoying Quakers telling them what to do. As one Friend put it to me, “The parents love this school; they think it would be really perfect if they could only get rid of those darned Quakers.”

In the end, or at least at this point, it seems clear that any real fundamental changes to the school are not possible; there are too few Friends involved in the actual school community to have significant influence on the culture of materialism and the assumptions of class and privilege that prevail underneath the lip service to “Quaker values”, or to find openings for emphasis on Quaker practice and action rather than “Quaker values”, whatever they are.

I am exceedingly grateful to Britton for calling out this ‘Quaker values” flim-flam. And he says more about it further on.

There is just too much inertia; FS will continue to be no more than an excellent New York City private school, despite the efforts of us annoying Quakers. 15th St. Meeting has established a “care committee” with the school, but it has shown no traction so far.

A couple of specific issues have in more recent years provided particularly provocative problems: The school got the trustees of the Quarter to borrow $20 million for a major renovation, without consulting the Quarterly Meeting. As clerk of the audit and budget committee at the time, when I found out I stooped to a shouting match with the head of the trustees finance subcommittee on the floor of Quarterly Meeting.

An Oar to the Other Side of the Head: Let’s see: the wealthy school got the local Quakers to borrow $20 million for the wealthy school to do renovations . . . . neat.

Trustees thereafter went after me big time, and failed to dislodge me from audit and budget, but it was a done deal in any case. The amount of indebtedness is more than the value of the Quarter’s endowment, but the wealthy parents and the headmaster were confident they could raise the capital funds from donations to cover the loans, and claimed that the wording of the loans only put the school’s revenues and assets, not the real property or the endowment, as collateral. Stunning! Meanwhile the school routinely interferes with the 15th St. Meeting’s physical space, especially the Meetinghouse, but the Friends are too conflict-averse to confront the situation head on and instead their sense of being exploited and disrespected grows and festers.

The school wants separate incorporation, as do the trustees of the Quarter, the school because it removes them from the trials of having to deal with the Quarterly Meeting, and the Trustees because it removes them from having to be fiduciaries and thus fiscally responsible for a program they do not really control. The separation is inevitable, but rests on prior resolution of the issue of dividing up the property, a big part of which is shared, used by both Meeting and school. Audit and budget has recently completed a detailed shared use survey identifying the extent and nature of the use, and my hope for the ultimate resolution is that the Quarterly Meeting derives an ongoing revenue stream from the school, which it can use to support Quaker education in various ways, such as the Quarter’s project to provide uniforms, tuition and supplies for AIDS orphans at a Friends school in Kissangoura, Tanganyika.

I would much prefer that we turn the school into a Quaker-based public charter school and serve the local community and our own children, but that would require too much assertion for the Friends of New York Quarterly Meeting. Those wealthy parents are really fierce!

The Splash of the Oar: Not only fierce, they can afford better and tougher lawyers, and will bring them out when needed to grab and hold on to the money. (Remember: behind the curtain, the money is always at the center.)

As for 15th St. Meeting, it is notoriously contentiously diverse (watch the Christocentric homophobes dealing with the gay Buddhists! and vice versa!) and rife with disagreements and fraught with personal dramas. It seems calmer this year, but that may be only a surface sense. It was that way during Elias Hicks’ day too I understand. Morningside [Meeting, which meets at the Riverside Church, up near Columbia and Harlem] is notoriously tolerantly diverse, so you should come here next time you’re in town.

My take-away from reading the 114 comments on the NYTimes web site after the article, and on other reactions I have read, including the [Non-Theist Friends] list, is that it is the school’s culture, in the anthropological sense, that is a deciding factor in its compatibility with actual Friends Meetings. A culture of Quakerly action, i.e., behavior in practice, that knows and consistently applies the manner of Friends to everything they do, is what works well.

Let’s Swing That Oar Again:

The whole “Quaker values” frame is a hoax, [emphasis added] a myth conjured probably by the Friends Council on Education that lets a school culture off the hook for its behavior as long as they espouse “Quaker values” in their talk and once in a while hold an event that purports to be Quakerly. The term is meaningless, as Quakerism is a religion of practice, not values. We don’t take oaths to integrity, equality, peace and simplicity, we act on them, we struggle to incorporate them in our behavior as best we can. The phrase itself betrays ignorance of our religion’s foundations, especially as the phrase is used in the context of Quaker private school education.

Irene McHenry, [of the Friends Council on Education] an inveterate apologist for Quaker participation in the elite private school industry, is quoted [in the Times article] with the old saw that because our schools provide us Quakers with outreach to the wealthy, they add value to our religious community. Perhaps, but what much greater value we could add to our community if we focused instead on providing a Friendly education for our own children, who might then stay active in the Religious Society of Friends in much greater numbers than they do now!

Instead Friends cannot afford to send their children to Friends schools or refuse on principle to participate in an educational program that violates our Testimony of equality, and our kids suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune in the public schools or we are led to home school them.

Meanwhile, the schools’ lack of Quaker students, parents and teachers turns any semblance of strong attention to the inner Light into an outward glossy packaging of a Quaker brand of kinder, gentler, liberal education with much appeal to certain wealthy demographics. Being a Quaker is a challenging, demanding, religious perspective, poorly suited to the hypocrisy of operating elite private schools, given our history of involvement with the creation of public schools and our historical commitment to education for all.

When the school drifts into the pattern of being culturally responsible to the community of independent private schools (instead of to a Quaker community), it adopts practices at variance with the manner of Friends, such as secrecy in decision-making that pretends to be protecting confidentiality, a focus on appearances for the sake of marketing that undermines simplicity and integrity, hierarchical decision-making in the name of efficiency, centralization of power and influence with a focus on money or prestige or things like college admissions that drives admission practices and financial aid, and an approach to dealing with trouble or problem events that favors protecting the institution’s good name at all costs regardless of any harm to individuals.

I suspect that the culture is only somewhat permeable, and depends a great deal on the school’s leadership. A headmaster can lead by example and support a Friends-oriented culture, or can view his or her role as that of a captain of industry leading the institution to financial success, growth and positive evaluations in the world of the private education industry. Which worldview does the headmaster take: looking to Friends for guidance and clarity, or looking to other private schools for definitions of success and prestige and appropriate behavior?

The latter orientation leads to conflict with Friends, even to hurting or dismaying them, and leads to their withdrawal to the sidelines except for those Friends who personally identify with the business approach and like the class-driven selectivity and material success, and join the Board to be part of this, not to steer clear of it. If a private school industry-oriented headmaster can recruit and maintain a few of these Friends for the Board, then the culture is doomed, as the Board becomes self-selecting and the school’s culture become impermeable. “Everyone” says the school is great, and if you don’t think so, you become an unfortunate and marginalized anomaly.

The Board of the school must be greater than 50% Friends for it to meet the Friends Council on Education definition of a Quaker school, so it is conceivable that Friends could shift the paradigm from a Board level, but this is terribly difficult. The nominating process to the Board would have to be actively seeking change to replace the Board with Friends who support a more Friendly culture, and the new Board members would have to educate and stand firm against the non-Quaker baord members, to bring unity on movement toward genuine cultural change.

Probably the headmaster would need to be replaced, unless he or she can suffer a genuine convincement to the substantial paradigm shift.

In Ranting Friendship,
Dave [Britton]

As I mentioned far above, I have some different views about Britton’s take on the “testimony of Equality” and some related matters. But those are for another time.

With one exception. In much of the emotional reaction in the benches against affluent Quaker schools, I see the footprints of an old-fashioned, seldom mentioned, but very real issue, what the Scholastic theologians named as one of the Seven Deadly Sins, namely ENVY.
Envy

Yes, envy, which philosopher Bertrand Russell rightly called one of the most potent sources of unhappiness. Check it out.

Taking account of the invidiousness of some of the reaction does not by any means banish all the issues raised so well here. But awareness of it and struggle against it would improve the discussion a great deal, in my view. Thanks again to Dave Britton for pushing it along.